"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The new girl from mIRC

ascalon

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Hello guys,

My problem is , that I know one really cute girl but i can't invite her to a date.
We are both members of the Bulgarian Red Cross (that means i am bulgarian :up: ) and I see her twice a week.We dont have much time to talk during the gatherings but we chat a lot in mIRC. I really like her but i am trying to move away the conversations from computer to caffee. Tell me the easiest way to do that,plsss because I think it will be stupid if i ask her to go out from the internet ;)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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KillaCam

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This might be difficult to grasp, so bear with me.

When you're both in the same room, go over and..wait for it, say.. "Hey, want to head out for a coffee?"

Hell, be creative even! Just do it, you'll be fine.
 

ascalon

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KillaCam said:
This might be difficult to grasp, so bear with me.

When you're both in the same room, go over and..wait for it, say.. "Hey, want to head out for a coffee?"

Hell, be creative even! Just do it, you'll be fine.

Hah,that's easy man,but after the gatherings all members go for a beer or coffee , we are usually about 15-25 people,so it will be very hard to take her away from the group :(


I am trying to find out an original way to take her away but i dont come up with anything :(
 

KillaCam

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Hah, hard maybe, impossible, never.

She might take it nicely if you suggest coffee 1 on 1 :)

Or if it's possible, meet up outside of your regular meeting intervals. A movie, a coffee, or just to hang out. There is a good reason why regular things are the norm..because they work.

Either way, keep positive, chin up, and don't hang back. Get in there and do what you have to do.
 
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