She asks "How old are you?" As i have just graduated college, i consider myself more mature than my age(im 23)..and im always talking to women older than myself. They always ask how old i am...and im never sure how to answer...usually i say "old enough".. anybody have any suggestions???
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
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Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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This might sound crazy but ummm I don't know how about just tell them how old you actually are.
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Biggest difference from my country and time I spent in America is in my country nobody asks your age. I date girls for month or more and never ask them. They don't ask me.
If she ask me? I tell her what she wants to hear. That is the dj way.
If she ask me? I tell her what she wants to hear. That is the dj way.
Bible_Belt
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23 is getting a little old to be dating women 5 years older than you. After about 26, women start going downhill physically. The novelty of the old chicks should start to wear off soon.
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Heart Break Kid
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Ask them to guess. If they give a nice ans pretend she read your mind and you're scared to talk to her now (in a playful way) and if she gives a ridiculous ans just tease her for it.
Or you could just tell her.
Or you could just tell her.
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The Bible says differently.Bible_Belt said:
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Im asked this question alot too and I usually say "take a guess" and they usually guess 2-3 years younger than my actual age(im 21). To add in a little fun, after they give their answer I usually say one year younger or ten years older than their guess with a joking smile THEN I give my actual age.
Themanthatcan
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Yeah. I used to say "Old enough."
Just screw around with her and go "65" or some age considerably older than what you actually look. (with a smile)
Just screw around with her and go "65" or some age considerably older than what you actually look. (with a smile)
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