She asks "How old are you?" As i have just graduated college, i consider myself more mature than my age(im 23)..and im always talking to women older than myself. They always ask how old i am...and im never sure how to answer...usually i say "old enough".. anybody have any suggestions???
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
The Sperminator
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This might sound crazy but ummm I don't know how about just tell them how old you actually are.
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Biggest difference from my country and time I spent in America is in my country nobody asks your age. I date girls for month or more and never ask them. They don't ask me.
If she ask me? I tell her what she wants to hear. That is the dj way.
If she ask me? I tell her what she wants to hear. That is the dj way.
Bible_Belt
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23 is getting a little old to be dating women 5 years older than you. After about 26, women start going downhill physically. The novelty of the old chicks should start to wear off soon.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Heart Break Kid
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Ask them to guess. If they give a nice ans pretend she read your mind and you're scared to talk to her now (in a playful way) and if she gives a ridiculous ans just tease her for it.
Or you could just tell her.
Or you could just tell her.
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The Bible says differently.Bible_Belt said:
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Im asked this question alot too and I usually say "take a guess" and they usually guess 2-3 years younger than my actual age(im 21). To add in a little fun, after they give their answer I usually say one year younger or ten years older than their guess with a joking smile THEN I give my actual age.
Themanthatcan
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Yeah. I used to say "Old enough."
Just screw around with her and go "65" or some age considerably older than what you actually look. (with a smile)
Just screw around with her and go "65" or some age considerably older than what you actually look. (with a smile)
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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