She asks "How old are you?" As i have just graduated college, i consider myself more mature than my age(im 23)..and im always talking to women older than myself. They always ask how old i am...and im never sure how to answer...usually i say "old enough".. anybody have any suggestions???
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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The Sperminator
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This might sound crazy but ummm I don't know how about just tell them how old you actually are.
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Biggest difference from my country and time I spent in America is in my country nobody asks your age. I date girls for month or more and never ask them. They don't ask me.
If she ask me? I tell her what she wants to hear. That is the dj way.
If she ask me? I tell her what she wants to hear. That is the dj way.
Bible_Belt
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23 is getting a little old to be dating women 5 years older than you. After about 26, women start going downhill physically. The novelty of the old chicks should start to wear off soon.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Heart Break Kid
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Ask them to guess. If they give a nice ans pretend she read your mind and you're scared to talk to her now (in a playful way) and if she gives a ridiculous ans just tease her for it.
Or you could just tell her.
Or you could just tell her.
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The Bible says differently.Bible_Belt said:
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Im asked this question alot too and I usually say "take a guess" and they usually guess 2-3 years younger than my actual age(im 21). To add in a little fun, after they give their answer I usually say one year younger or ten years older than their guess with a joking smile THEN I give my actual age.
Themanthatcan
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Yeah. I used to say "Old enough."
Just screw around with her and go "65" or some age considerably older than what you actually look. (with a smile)
Just screw around with her and go "65" or some age considerably older than what you actually look. (with a smile)
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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