She asks "How old are you?" As i have just graduated college, i consider myself more mature than my age(im 23)..and im always talking to women older than myself. They always ask how old i am...and im never sure how to answer...usually i say "old enough".. anybody have any suggestions???
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The Sperminator
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This might sound crazy but ummm I don't know how about just tell them how old you actually are.
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Biggest difference from my country and time I spent in America is in my country nobody asks your age. I date girls for month or more and never ask them. They don't ask me.
If she ask me? I tell her what she wants to hear. That is the dj way.
If she ask me? I tell her what she wants to hear. That is the dj way.
Bible_Belt
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23 is getting a little old to be dating women 5 years older than you. After about 26, women start going downhill physically. The novelty of the old chicks should start to wear off soon.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Heart Break Kid
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Ask them to guess. If they give a nice ans pretend she read your mind and you're scared to talk to her now (in a playful way) and if she gives a ridiculous ans just tease her for it.
Or you could just tell her.
Or you could just tell her.
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The Bible says differently.Bible_Belt said:
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Im asked this question alot too and I usually say "take a guess" and they usually guess 2-3 years younger than my actual age(im 21). To add in a little fun, after they give their answer I usually say one year younger or ten years older than their guess with a joking smile THEN I give my actual age.
Themanthatcan
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Yeah. I used to say "Old enough."
Just screw around with her and go "65" or some age considerably older than what you actually look. (with a smile)
Just screw around with her and go "65" or some age considerably older than what you actually look. (with a smile)
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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