She asks "How old are you?" As i have just graduated college, i consider myself more mature than my age(im 23)..and im always talking to women older than myself. They always ask how old i am...and im never sure how to answer...usually i say "old enough".. anybody have any suggestions???
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
The Sperminator
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This might sound crazy but ummm I don't know how about just tell them how old you actually are.
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Biggest difference from my country and time I spent in America is in my country nobody asks your age. I date girls for month or more and never ask them. They don't ask me.
If she ask me? I tell her what she wants to hear. That is the dj way.
If she ask me? I tell her what she wants to hear. That is the dj way.
Bible_Belt
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23 is getting a little old to be dating women 5 years older than you. After about 26, women start going downhill physically. The novelty of the old chicks should start to wear off soon.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Heart Break Kid
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Ask them to guess. If they give a nice ans pretend she read your mind and you're scared to talk to her now (in a playful way) and if she gives a ridiculous ans just tease her for it.
Or you could just tell her.
Or you could just tell her.
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The Bible says differently.Bible_Belt said:
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Im asked this question alot too and I usually say "take a guess" and they usually guess 2-3 years younger than my actual age(im 21). To add in a little fun, after they give their answer I usually say one year younger or ten years older than their guess with a joking smile THEN I give my actual age.
Themanthatcan
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Yeah. I used to say "Old enough."
Just screw around with her and go "65" or some age considerably older than what you actually look. (with a smile)
Just screw around with her and go "65" or some age considerably older than what you actually look. (with a smile)
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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