MatureDJ
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
logicallefty
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I think women need to get a better understanding themselves of what is happening to their bodies. And then quit blaming their "mood swings" on external factors (like the men around them).
All other factors the same, I am confident that if men had periods we would not be as bytchy because we would know "I am cranky today because of my cycle. It is not the people around me who caused this. It is all inside me".
All other factors the same, I am confident that if men had periods we would not be as bytchy because we would know "I am cranky today because of my cycle. It is not the people around me who caused this. It is all inside me".
SgtSplacker
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I'd rather get a period than have to go to work every day.
logicallefty
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You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to SgtSplacker again.SgtSplacker said:
Amen!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Mike32ct
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Plus other men wouldn't tolerate that. They'd be like, "Dude it's just your period. Man up and quit bytching."logicallefty said: