MatureDJ
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The "menustration machine" to allow men to experience what women go through
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
logicallefty
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I think women need to get a better understanding themselves of what is happening to their bodies. And then quit blaming their "mood swings" on external factors (like the men around them).
All other factors the same, I am confident that if men had periods we would not be as bytchy because we would know "I am cranky today because of my cycle. It is not the people around me who caused this. It is all inside me".
All other factors the same, I am confident that if men had periods we would not be as bytchy because we would know "I am cranky today because of my cycle. It is not the people around me who caused this. It is all inside me".
SgtSplacker
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I'd rather get a period than have to go to work every day.
logicallefty
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You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to SgtSplacker again.SgtSplacker said:
Amen!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Mike32ct
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Plus other men wouldn't tolerate that. They'd be like, "Dude it's just your period. Man up and quit bytching."logicallefty said: