"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The MAN's guide (link inside)

piri

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Here it is again:

http://rapidshare.de/files/36011836/MANs_guide.doc.html

I'm sorry for making you wait so much but I was out for some days.

It is a doc for 2 simple reasons:

1 - I was going to write these points down only for myself.

2 - It is because you're supposed to print it and mark what you already did/have instead of spending hours in front of the computer.

Because if you read this in your computer, you're tempted to just start playing computer games after reading it instead of getting to action.

That 2 steps forward and 1 back is, for example, when you start KINO, you should stop it for a while (some minutes) and then start again from the point you were. Or when you're about to get down with a girl.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJ Axton

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Yeah this looks like a good guide, but none of the links work. Could someone please upload it to megaupload, or if anyone has some private webspace they can loan it actually would be great.

Also, how long is this guide? Is it like a whole guide like you can get off sites, or is it just like a page of points?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Forms

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I'm excited reading all the great responses but it won't download for me either. (where the hell was I october of last year? I don't remember this thread at all)
 

yungahdubz

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Yeah, none of the links work for me either :moon:

Could you just put the contents of it on sosuave pleeease? ;)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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