"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The MAN's guide (link inside)

piri

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Here it is again:

http://rapidshare.de/files/36011836/MANs_guide.doc.html

I'm sorry for making you wait so much but I was out for some days.

It is a doc for 2 simple reasons:

1 - I was going to write these points down only for myself.

2 - It is because you're supposed to print it and mark what you already did/have instead of spending hours in front of the computer.

Because if you read this in your computer, you're tempted to just start playing computer games after reading it instead of getting to action.

That 2 steps forward and 1 back is, for example, when you start KINO, you should stop it for a while (some minutes) and then start again from the point you were. Or when you're about to get down with a girl.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DJ Axton

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Yeah this looks like a good guide, but none of the links work. Could someone please upload it to megaupload, or if anyone has some private webspace they can loan it actually would be great.

Also, how long is this guide? Is it like a whole guide like you can get off sites, or is it just like a page of points?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Forms

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I'm excited reading all the great responses but it won't download for me either. (where the hell was I october of last year? I don't remember this thread at all)
 

yungahdubz

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Yeah, none of the links work for me either :moon:

Could you just put the contents of it on sosuave pleeease? ;)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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