Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The MAN's guide (link inside)

piri

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Here it is again:

http://rapidshare.de/files/36011836/MANs_guide.doc.html

I'm sorry for making you wait so much but I was out for some days.

It is a doc for 2 simple reasons:

1 - I was going to write these points down only for myself.

2 - It is because you're supposed to print it and mark what you already did/have instead of spending hours in front of the computer.

Because if you read this in your computer, you're tempted to just start playing computer games after reading it instead of getting to action.

That 2 steps forward and 1 back is, for example, when you start KINO, you should stop it for a while (some minutes) and then start again from the point you were. Or when you're about to get down with a girl.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJ Axton

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Yeah this looks like a good guide, but none of the links work. Could someone please upload it to megaupload, or if anyone has some private webspace they can loan it actually would be great.

Also, how long is this guide? Is it like a whole guide like you can get off sites, or is it just like a page of points?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Forms

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I'm excited reading all the great responses but it won't download for me either. (where the hell was I october of last year? I don't remember this thread at all)
 

yungahdubz

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Yeah, none of the links work for me either :moon:

Could you just put the contents of it on sosuave pleeease? ;)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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