"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The MAN's guide (link inside)

piri

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Here it is again:

http://rapidshare.de/files/36011836/MANs_guide.doc.html

I'm sorry for making you wait so much but I was out for some days.

It is a doc for 2 simple reasons:

1 - I was going to write these points down only for myself.

2 - It is because you're supposed to print it and mark what you already did/have instead of spending hours in front of the computer.

Because if you read this in your computer, you're tempted to just start playing computer games after reading it instead of getting to action.

That 2 steps forward and 1 back is, for example, when you start KINO, you should stop it for a while (some minutes) and then start again from the point you were. Or when you're about to get down with a girl.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJ Axton

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Yeah this looks like a good guide, but none of the links work. Could someone please upload it to megaupload, or if anyone has some private webspace they can loan it actually would be great.

Also, how long is this guide? Is it like a whole guide like you can get off sites, or is it just like a page of points?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Forms

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I'm excited reading all the great responses but it won't download for me either. (where the hell was I october of last year? I don't remember this thread at all)
 

yungahdubz

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Yeah, none of the links work for me either :moon:

Could you just put the contents of it on sosuave pleeease? ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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