Iamnotacrook
Senior Don Juan
Unfortunately, most of the guys on this site aren't hot chicks... and by the way, Leah is a girls' name.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yeah, but I dont see them....by the way quit PMing me asking for "NUDE PICS"Originally posted by arutha
Hmm an AW did that exact thing to me the other day, including the make a wish part.
Theres no harm in it, you won't get a negative response, it won't be magic but it will help make her comfortable.
WTF? You're perfectly fine sticking your **** in her ***** when you don't know who else has been there, you're happy putting your fingers in there and probably your tongue as well, but you think its disgusting to touch a fucking eyelash?!? You're screwed up man.
Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Yeah, but I dont see them....by the way quit PMing me asking for "NUDE PICS"
Originally posted by catch
vibe"ooooh honey, you have a bogey stuck to you"
"HOLD STILL"
pick, pick
vibe"there, now i have the bogey "honey bunny"
"MAKE A WISH"
girl" OOOH,i wish you could pick all of my.....
vibe"STOP,your wish must be your wish only, "HONEY BUNNY"
girl"ok, ive done it babey"
vibe"OK,now, EAT the bogey and your wish will come true"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
HA HA HA, just a joke thats allOriginally posted by Vibe
You're kind of an idiot, huh.
~Vibe~
OH!! OH! A joke! My mistake, man.Originally posted by catch
HA HA HA, just a joke thats all
LMAO! So does this trick work on guys??Originally posted by Iamnotacrook
Unfortunately, most of the guys on this site aren't hot chicks... and by the way, Leah is a girls' name.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
It's not instant. The first time you do it, it will just be a "cute thing" that works the same as boyfriending.Originally posted by arutha
Like I said, I had a chick do it to me a while ago.. Can't say it really made me feel any different towards her, I was just whatever. At least shes comfortable touching my face like that, thats a good thing I guess. So its not going to do you any harm, as someone said no one is going to knock back a chick doing it to them but it probably won't prove much.
Good point, man. Yeah, this is definitely something I am used to doing just because it was something an old girlfriend used to do to me. When I tried it, it was on a whim. I do similar kino things like nose-touching and brushing her hair out of her face for her. I have the same problem, h2o. Girls get really attached because I act the part. I have been in four long-term relationships (anywhere from one to two years) so I think I just fall into that interaction-style very naturally. It doesn't come off as AFC because I am comfortable and confident with it, but it does let the girl know that I am different and "sensitive" underneath my tough, alpha exterior. In other words, our relationship won't be the average drama-filled one she has with the other "jerks" she dates. She will be on her toes, but she will still know she is loved (which, in my opinion, is NOT a bad thing, no matter WHAT all you naysayers out there would like to say).Originally posted by h2o
i guess rather than everyone try the eyelash thing, which is not a bad tip, everyone needs to find their unique kino thing. try something weird and unusual that other guys wouldn't do to her...poke or tickle her, be random and just have fun with it.
Awesome! Great to see you're field-testing it!Originally posted by toeknee
I tired this yesterday when i went out with a co-worker. Exactly everything that would happen did. She guessed wrong i dropped the converstion of it and it drummed up her curiosty about the whole thing. I told her you will have to wait till the next time to find out the result.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.