Iamnotacrook
Senior Don Juan
Unfortunately, most of the guys on this site aren't hot chicks... and by the way, Leah is a girls' name.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
The "magic eyelash" technique
- Thread starter Vibe
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Smooth Player 056
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Yeah, but I dont see them....by the way quit PMing me asking for "NUDE PICS"
catch
Senior Don Juan
vibe"ooooh honey, you have a bogey stuck to you"
"HOLD STILL"
pick, pick
vibe"there, now i have the bogey "honey bunny"
"MAKE A WISH"
girl" OOOH,i wish you could pick all of my.....
vibe"STOP,your wish must be your wish only, "HONEY BUNNY"
girl"ok, ive done it babey"
vibe"OK,now, EAT the bogey and your wish will come true"
"HOLD STILL"
pick, pick
vibe"there, now i have the bogey "honey bunny"
"MAKE A WISH"
girl" OOOH,i wish you could pick all of my.....
vibe"STOP,your wish must be your wish only, "HONEY BUNNY"
girl"ok, ive done it babey"
vibe"OK,now, EAT the bogey and your wish will come true"
Vibe
Don Juan
You're kind of an idiot, huh.
~Vibe~
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
catch
Senior Don Juan
HA HA HA, just a joke thats all
Vibe
Don Juan
OH!! OH! A joke! My mistake, man.
Everybody knows that wishing on bogeys only works if they're fresh-picked.
~Vibe~
Leah
Don Juan
LMAO! So does this trick work on guys??
arutha
Senior Don Juan
Like I said, I had a chick do it to me a while ago.. Can't say it really made me feel any different towards her, I was just whatever. At least shes comfortable touching my face like that, thats a good thing I guess. So its not going to do you any harm, as someone said no one is going to knock back a chick doing it to them but it probably won't prove much.
toeknee
New Member
I tired this yesterday when i went out with a co-worker. Exactly everything that would happen did. She guessed wrong i dropped the converstion of it and it drummed up her curiosty about the whole thing. I told her you will have to wait till the next time to find out the result.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
avrilishot
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seems like a good idea.
Vibe
Don Juan
It's not instant. The first time you do it, it will just be a "cute thing" that works the same as boyfriending.
It's the NEXT time you do it, that it begins to count. When you grab her eyelash and just hold it out to her and she remembers what she is supposed to do without you having to tell her anything. That is when it begins to get her attached because now it's something you two "share." She knows exactly what to do when you hold out that eyelash and that makes her feel good inside. But don't do it too fast. I like to do it when we're lying in bed, cuddling late at night or early in the morning (maybe after sex). Those are times that eyelashes naturally come out on her cheek so the amount that you do it sort of works itself out (unless your girl is shedding or something...but that's a whole other thing...weirdo...)
~Vibe~
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h2o
Banned
although not original and somewhat complicated, i don't get the whole flaming thing...
i actually think the eyelash thing is a bit sensitive, i haven't done that...but i sometimes if i'm with a girl that i know we both are flirting with each other, ie like each other (and we're standing pretty close), i like to lightly rub/pet her nose with my index finger. sort of in a joking manner and i smile...it's not a technique, and it's just something i do, hadn't thought of it this way until now. and usually she'll just smile and give me the "what was that for" look. and i usually say something like "you have a cute little nose" and smile...it's similar to the eyelash thing because i've done it a lot, and the girl gets accustomed to it, and likes it when i pet their "cute" nose.
haha, damn, i almost feel like dr. beard writing this, i've never really shared this before...but maybe you guys should try it too. do it when you're flirting, and alone with the girl, like vibe said...and make sure it's the right moment or it will come off un-natural and bad.
i guess rather than everyone try the eyelash thing, which is not a bad tip, everyone needs to find their unique kino thing. try something weird and unusual that other guys wouldn't do to her...poke or tickle her, be random and just have fun with it.
eh, reading what i just wrote, i think i get what you're saying with the "boyfriending" thing...although i've never really had a gf, the few girls i've been with seem to get attached to me quickly, i actually don't like that bit. maybe because i'm acting the part...hadn't thought of it this way.
thx, keep the ideas coming vibe. :woo:
oh, and on a final note...that maybe how this could be a bad tip, in that it could get the girl attached to you, thinking you're her bf...i guess it's not exactly bad, but not everyone is looking for a gf, and just likes flings...kind of makes me think i should stop doing the cuddly, cute stuff as much. kind of feel chumpish now, lol. i guess it all depends, and be careful what you wish for.
i actually think the eyelash thing is a bit sensitive, i haven't done that...but i sometimes if i'm with a girl that i know we both are flirting with each other, ie like each other (and we're standing pretty close), i like to lightly rub/pet her nose with my index finger. sort of in a joking manner and i smile...it's not a technique, and it's just something i do, hadn't thought of it this way until now. and usually she'll just smile and give me the "what was that for" look. and i usually say something like "you have a cute little nose" and smile...it's similar to the eyelash thing because i've done it a lot, and the girl gets accustomed to it, and likes it when i pet their "cute" nose.
haha, damn, i almost feel like dr. beard writing this, i've never really shared this before...but maybe you guys should try it too. do it when you're flirting, and alone with the girl, like vibe said...and make sure it's the right moment or it will come off un-natural and bad.
i guess rather than everyone try the eyelash thing, which is not a bad tip, everyone needs to find their unique kino thing. try something weird and unusual that other guys wouldn't do to her...poke or tickle her, be random and just have fun with it.
eh, reading what i just wrote, i think i get what you're saying with the "boyfriending" thing...although i've never really had a gf, the few girls i've been with seem to get attached to me quickly, i actually don't like that bit. maybe because i'm acting the part...hadn't thought of it this way.
thx, keep the ideas coming vibe. :woo:
oh, and on a final note...that maybe how this could be a bad tip, in that it could get the girl attached to you, thinking you're her bf...i guess it's not exactly bad, but not everyone is looking for a gf, and just likes flings...kind of makes me think i should stop doing the cuddly, cute stuff as much. kind of feel chumpish now, lol. i guess it all depends, and be careful what you wish for.
Vibe
Don Juan
Good point, man. Yeah, this is definitely something I am used to doing just because it was something an old girlfriend used to do to me. When I tried it, it was on a whim. I do similar kino things like nose-touching and brushing her hair out of her face for her. I have the same problem, h2o. Girls get really attached because I act the part. I have been in four long-term relationships (anywhere from one to two years) so I think I just fall into that interaction-style very naturally. It doesn't come off as AFC because I am comfortable and confident with it, but it does let the girl know that I am different and "sensitive" underneath my tough, alpha exterior. In other words, our relationship won't be the average drama-filled one she has with the other "jerks" she dates. She will be on her toes, but she will still know she is loved (which, in my opinion, is NOT a bad thing, no matter WHAT all you naysayers out there would like to say).
Anyway, as h2o said, these kinds of things are not to be considered as "techniques" or "tactics." But from reading them, you should be able to derive your own natural comfort-building style. Always remember - your own style is the only style that will work for you in the long run as well as the short run.
~Vibe~
Vibe
Don Juan
Awesome! Great to see you're field-testing it!
~Vibe~
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
johnmich
Senior Don Juan
You should try the lint thing. Carry a bit of lint and pretend to take it off her shoulder or where ever.
Then comment on how long its been there and laff at her.
Then comment on how long its been there and laff at her.