Vibe
Don Juan
The eyelash technique
Before I get into the main tip, I want to mention that I have been testing different things within the confines of the "pre-relationship relationship." These are things that work at any stage of the game but have the added effect of making the girl feel close to you. The first one is well-known and so utterly simple but it is so effective that I had to mention it. Call her petnames! Seriously. Do it sparsely at first. Remember the "two steps forward, one step back" rule and call her things like "baby," "sweetheart," "darling," etc. This isn't AFCish unless you allow yourself to be taken in by it. If you do it nonchalantly, it will only come off as confident. You don't have to be sweet about it either. You can do the same thing and be a jerk. Call her "sweet cheeks," "dollface," "girly-girl," etc. You will be amazed at how her response to you changes once you start using these "petnames" in your normal seduction lexicon. If you want to increase comfort-level fast, this is the way to get it rolling.
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But enough about that, what you REALLY want to see is my new field-tested technique, which is a combination boyfriending/anchoring/game thing. For now, I'm calling it the "eyelash." And let me tell you - it is the sh*t.
This is meant to be used in combination with the "boyfriending" technique. (the boyfriending technique consists of picking fake eyelashes or eye-crusties off of a girl's eyes to put her in a frame of having 'intimate comfort' with you.) So here's how it works.
1. When you see an eyelash on her eye, tell her "hold still" and then pick it off. Hold it between your thumb and forefinger and just say "top or bottom." She'll look at you weird for a second and then either say "top...?," "bottom...?," or "why?" If she asks why, just say "trust me" and she will pick one of them.
2. After she has chosen, separate your fingers, being careful not to lose the eyelash. It will be stuck to either the top finger or the bottom finger. If it is on the finger that she said it would be on, you tell her, "close your eyes and make a wish." If it is on the wrong one, tell her "aww, better luck next time" and then drop mention of it (this will make her REALLY interested in what it is next time you try it).
3. If she tries to make the wish out loud, cut her off and tell her it has to be a secret. Then, when she makes the wish, have her blow the eyelash off your finger. Look into her eyes and say, "now blow it off and your wish will come true..." When she does, her wish is then "complete." This works really well as an anchor for your intimacy. After you do this once, then the next time you do it, she will know exactly what to do. It will make her feel very close to you (like you two share a special 'ritual') and she will almost ALWAYS snuggle up to you afterwards.
Be CAREFUL though. This kind of thing can get her really attached. Also, you probably shouldn't do this to anybody else while she is around. It will likely ruin its effect (which can last as long as the relationship).
This has been gold for me and I hope it will be the same for you guys. Field test this one, bros!
~Vibe~
Before I get into the main tip, I want to mention that I have been testing different things within the confines of the "pre-relationship relationship." These are things that work at any stage of the game but have the added effect of making the girl feel close to you. The first one is well-known and so utterly simple but it is so effective that I had to mention it. Call her petnames! Seriously. Do it sparsely at first. Remember the "two steps forward, one step back" rule and call her things like "baby," "sweetheart," "darling," etc. This isn't AFCish unless you allow yourself to be taken in by it. If you do it nonchalantly, it will only come off as confident. You don't have to be sweet about it either. You can do the same thing and be a jerk. Call her "sweet cheeks," "dollface," "girly-girl," etc. You will be amazed at how her response to you changes once you start using these "petnames" in your normal seduction lexicon. If you want to increase comfort-level fast, this is the way to get it rolling.
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But enough about that, what you REALLY want to see is my new field-tested technique, which is a combination boyfriending/anchoring/game thing. For now, I'm calling it the "eyelash." And let me tell you - it is the sh*t.
This is meant to be used in combination with the "boyfriending" technique. (the boyfriending technique consists of picking fake eyelashes or eye-crusties off of a girl's eyes to put her in a frame of having 'intimate comfort' with you.) So here's how it works.
1. When you see an eyelash on her eye, tell her "hold still" and then pick it off. Hold it between your thumb and forefinger and just say "top or bottom." She'll look at you weird for a second and then either say "top...?," "bottom...?," or "why?" If she asks why, just say "trust me" and she will pick one of them.
2. After she has chosen, separate your fingers, being careful not to lose the eyelash. It will be stuck to either the top finger or the bottom finger. If it is on the finger that she said it would be on, you tell her, "close your eyes and make a wish." If it is on the wrong one, tell her "aww, better luck next time" and then drop mention of it (this will make her REALLY interested in what it is next time you try it).
3. If she tries to make the wish out loud, cut her off and tell her it has to be a secret. Then, when she makes the wish, have her blow the eyelash off your finger. Look into her eyes and say, "now blow it off and your wish will come true..." When she does, her wish is then "complete." This works really well as an anchor for your intimacy. After you do this once, then the next time you do it, she will know exactly what to do. It will make her feel very close to you (like you two share a special 'ritual') and she will almost ALWAYS snuggle up to you afterwards.
Be CAREFUL though. This kind of thing can get her really attached. Also, you probably shouldn't do this to anybody else while she is around. It will likely ruin its effect (which can last as long as the relationship).
This has been gold for me and I hope it will be the same for you guys. Field test this one, bros!
~Vibe~
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