Iamnotacrook
Senior Don Juan
Unfortunately, most of the guys on this site aren't hot chicks... and by the way, Leah is a girls' name.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yeah, but I dont see them....by the way quit PMing me asking for "NUDE PICS"Originally posted by arutha
Hmm an AW did that exact thing to me the other day, including the make a wish part.
Theres no harm in it, you won't get a negative response, it won't be magic but it will help make her comfortable.
WTF? You're perfectly fine sticking your **** in her ***** when you don't know who else has been there, you're happy putting your fingers in there and probably your tongue as well, but you think its disgusting to touch a fucking eyelash?!? You're screwed up man.
Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Yeah, but I dont see them....by the way quit PMing me asking for "NUDE PICS"
Originally posted by catch
vibe"ooooh honey, you have a bogey stuck to you"
"HOLD STILL"
pick, pick
vibe"there, now i have the bogey "honey bunny"
"MAKE A WISH"
girl" OOOH,i wish you could pick all of my.....
vibe"STOP,your wish must be your wish only, "HONEY BUNNY"
girl"ok, ive done it babey"
vibe"OK,now, EAT the bogey and your wish will come true"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
HA HA HA, just a joke thats allOriginally posted by Vibe
You're kind of an idiot, huh.
~Vibe~
OH!! OH! A joke! My mistake, man.Originally posted by catch
HA HA HA, just a joke thats all
LMAO! So does this trick work on guys??Originally posted by Iamnotacrook
Unfortunately, most of the guys on this site aren't hot chicks... and by the way, Leah is a girls' name.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
It's not instant. The first time you do it, it will just be a "cute thing" that works the same as boyfriending.Originally posted by arutha
Like I said, I had a chick do it to me a while ago.. Can't say it really made me feel any different towards her, I was just whatever. At least shes comfortable touching my face like that, thats a good thing I guess. So its not going to do you any harm, as someone said no one is going to knock back a chick doing it to them but it probably won't prove much.
Good point, man. Yeah, this is definitely something I am used to doing just because it was something an old girlfriend used to do to me. When I tried it, it was on a whim. I do similar kino things like nose-touching and brushing her hair out of her face for her. I have the same problem, h2o. Girls get really attached because I act the part. I have been in four long-term relationships (anywhere from one to two years) so I think I just fall into that interaction-style very naturally. It doesn't come off as AFC because I am comfortable and confident with it, but it does let the girl know that I am different and "sensitive" underneath my tough, alpha exterior. In other words, our relationship won't be the average drama-filled one she has with the other "jerks" she dates. She will be on her toes, but she will still know she is loved (which, in my opinion, is NOT a bad thing, no matter WHAT all you naysayers out there would like to say).Originally posted by h2o
i guess rather than everyone try the eyelash thing, which is not a bad tip, everyone needs to find their unique kino thing. try something weird and unusual that other guys wouldn't do to her...poke or tickle her, be random and just have fun with it.
Awesome! Great to see you're field-testing it!Originally posted by toeknee
I tired this yesterday when i went out with a co-worker. Exactly everything that would happen did. She guessed wrong i dropped the converstion of it and it drummed up her curiosty about the whole thing. I told her you will have to wait till the next time to find out the result.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.