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The Lunch time pickup?

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guys, i've noticed just how many babes sit around eating by themselves in the plaza's, and surprinsingly they're the sexy corporate ones!

what are some simple conversation topics starters, tips, etc to get me going?
 

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(referring to the food) "Hey, that looks pretty good, is it? Where'd you get that?"
 

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well my goal is to get some practice at just talking to strangers for extended periods of time

so what are some good topics to talk about, especially with the corporate hotties (the dumb young ones sit on their own for a good reason)

i was thinking starting off about the job, then trying to steer it toward some personal stuff, maybe ease it into the weekend and see where it heads
 

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> : - ). I love lunch time pickups! If u want to keep it simple...go up to her, invite urself to sit down. She can accept or reject(most women won't reject, 99% will accept). For conversation, prolly something light hearted about the food/what she's doing around here, etc...and then deeper stuff :).
 

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DonJoseCantosie said:
> : - ). I love lunch time pickups! If u want to keep it simple...go up to her, invite urself to sit down. She can accept or reject(most women won't reject, 99% will accept). For conversation, prolly something light hearted about the food/what she's doing around here, etc...and then deeper stuff :).
can you and others please elaborate?
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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just go up and be like "can i have some?" before she answers, grab a handful of whatever shes eating and walk away. she'll love it.

anyways...just ask if the seat is taken and if they say no, take a seat. then i guess normal conversation
 

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can you and others please elaborate?
Absolutely. Aright, first you go up to her while she's sitting down. U ask her or the group, "Room for one more?" or "Mind if i sit here?" or "I'm sitting down with you...are you down with that?" with a smile of course. They will 9/10 accept. When u sit down, u introduce urself and get their names. From here, go into light topics such as what foods they like, what they like to do in the meantime, something light. But make sure u look at her in the eyes with a smile so she knows that u like her(make sure she knows otherwise she'll most likely just think ur just being friendly). After this, if she's receptive to the light stuff....go into deeper stuff, find out about her. Ask her open ended questions about herself, and thus with some of the things she says let her talk..and then contribute some portion to where u can relate to it. For example: If she says she likes Aerobics, even if u haven't done aerobics...u can go into things similar or ask if its similar to how it looks on TV. Then after ur done eating, get her contact information. Trust me, most won't reject a person eating with them. The hard part is letting them know u indeed do like them. Hope that helps :).

P.S.: Always remember, make sure u convey that ur not just being friendly, that u are indeed seducing her. Trust me, after doing lunch time...it was my hugest sticking point...just seemingly like a friend.
 
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