You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
.can you and others please elaborate?DonJoseCantosie said:> : - ). I love lunch time pickups! If u want to keep it simple...go up to her, invite urself to sit down. She can accept or reject(most women won't reject, 99% will accept). For conversation, prolly something light hearted about the food/what she's doing around here, etc...and then deeper stuff
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Absolutely. Aright, first you go up to her while she's sitting down. U ask her or the group, "Room for one more?" or "Mind if i sit here?" or "I'm sitting down with you...are you down with that?" with a smile of course. They will 9/10 accept. When u sit down, u introduce urself and get their names. From here, go into light topics such as what foods they like, what they like to do in the meantime, something light. But make sure u look at her in the eyes with a smile so she knows that u like her(make sure she knows otherwise she'll most likely just think ur just being friendly). After this, if she's receptive to the light stuff....go into deeper stuff, find out about her. Ask her open ended questions about herself, and thus with some of the things she says let her talk..and then contribute some portion to where u can relate to it. For example: If she says she likes Aerobics, even if u haven't done aerobics...u can go into things similar or ask if its similar to how it looks on TV. Then after ur done eating, get her contact information. Trust me, most won't reject a person eating with them. The hard part is letting them know u indeed do like them. Hope that helpsonthepath said:
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