"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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and there you go with the insults. Another reason why you should stick to this message board.ketostix said:
and I should believe you just because you say so. What proof can you show me that its "miilions" and the majority of other guys?
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Yeah, that's gotta be it. Sheesh.MacAvoy said:
I don't even know about this AFC thing. I wonder if you'd consider my H one? I'd love a really good definition of one before I could weigh in more on this one.
My H is very, very strong-willed but he's not obnoxious or bullying.
And I'm very confident and stand up to him but I'm not a bytch. Everything is a matter of degree. There's a fine line between strong-willed and obnoxious and bullying you know?
And between confidence and *****iness...same thing. So I'd love a really good definition of what you consider an AFC. Because if it's a matter of being strong-willed then my H isn't one. But he's not a DJ, from the definitions I've seen here either.
Can we define these two types of men better for those of us in the dark?
Is there something in between the two? Because I suspect those are the men that most women would go for.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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I was lurking when it happened.......the point was to go into Loveshack, and get some men from there to join sosuave so they can get better educated on the seduction process..........that did NOT happen
not a single male joined
instead, all we had join was a dozen women from there who are at the very best just curious and at the very best have come here to challenge our opinions on seduction to the very worst, mess around and post random bullshyt!!
am I the only one who actually noticed this or no?
This just reinforces the fact that women should not be on this site, because this site is designed specifically for men
ONLY MEN WHO HAVE HAD SUCCESS WITH WOMEN CAN GUIDE OTHER MEN TO SUCCESS
a woman, especially some trolling loveshack woman offers this place NOTHING, we dont want your advice, we dont need your advice, EVERY THREAD STARTED BY A LOVESHACK CHICK TURNED INTO AT LEAST 5 PAGES WITHIN A DAY
attention wh0res
the sad part is, its very likely that these women are not even the HB8s HB9s and HB10s, who POSSIBLY could offer up some advice, but these are AFW's - Average Frustrated Women
guys, its very easy to see why all these loveshack women are here, to mess around, to learn our don juan secrets so they can call guys they meet in the future out on their shyt (aka if a guy teases her, she'll say "ohhh thats just C+F), and to try to offer their unneeded advice
WHERE ARE THE MEN FROM LOVESHACK THAT WE ALL HOPED WOULD COME HERE???
oh thats right, loveshack is mostly a female site
How could you possibly know that.Total Control said:
I bet there were some guys who were tempted to come here and join, but they figured you ladies would be mad at them and not talk to them any more so maybe they changed their minds.
Obviously, you only see what you want to see. Did you not READ this thread? There's been more than one LS guy posting here. Of course most don't buy into a lot of this. But seriously, go back and just read the last few posts and you'll see that a guy has been posting. Open your eyes. It hasn't been all women on here.Total Control said:
Guess you missed the hot LS women pics yesterday. Your loss.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I missed it. I don't think I'm going back. They kept saying we're from "so stupid" and frankly, I can't understand why if they have such low opinions of us they would put up their photos for us to view.slowgold said:
We hadn't earned that right, is my opinion.
Also, for your information, the LS guys are great. They have their own minds and don't need pamphlets and articles to tell them how to be on a date. They wouldn't care if any of us wouldn't like coming over here...they're their own men. MEN, is the operative word here.reset said:
Some of you could learn a lot from them.
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ahahahaHAHAHA, wow. You guys crack me up. They didn't do it for YOU or anyone else on here. It's just something we all do every so often. The men post their pics too.reset said:
The sostupid thing was just because we've been called names too...it's juvenile. I agree. But it's nothing you guys didn't do...what are we LoveSlackers and half a dozen other dumb names? You actually got off easy.`
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Since most of the threads and posts got deleted I'm sure they had no clue what was happening, like you said, just spontaneous.
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basically what men did come over from loveshack have been silently waiting for all the female loveshack trolls to get banned or get bored and leave , so that then they can come out of the shadows and feel free to post without having the others copy and paste it back over on loveshack to laugh at them.Total Control said:
why are the love shack women laughing?
to embarrass them, ridicule them, and get them to think that this site is (what were the exact words, oh ...) sostupid, sopathetic, and a cult.
why would they want men to believe that?
CONTROL!
yah, i said it.
too many women want men to do what they tell them to , play their little games, jump through their hoops, hand over their paychecks and sit down and shut up and just answer "yes dear".
haven't you had enough?
enough!
quit playing their little games.
if you see a newbie named after a taco bell product with 80 posts in 2 days
stop arguing and hit the ignore user option.
once you stop giving the attention to the drama, the trouble makers will leave.
the ones that stay, truly want to know what this site is about.
those are the ones that i want to read threads about. the ones that are waiting patiently for this site to be done with the drama and get back to what it is all about.
Yeah you were saying "there are great men you can learn from at loveshack" and I said invite them over! What's the problem lady?slowgold said:
You didn't say "great men from loveshack who are now at so-suave".
Boy you're defensive.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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