"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Magma

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Anyone from Loveshack? Looky here!

For the males, I'm glad you have found us. Many of us had to reach the depths of our souls and lives to find this place. Congratulations, you may have been spared that same pain because you found this oasis in the desert of AFCism sooner rather than later.

On the surface, this site may appear as nothing more than a slice of the PUA Community pie. Are there men on here that subscribe to the PUA lifestyle? Sure. However, know this: this site is about IMPROVING MEN'S LIVES. Meeting and attracting the woman of your dreams is a by-product of this improvement.

Before you post here, please read the Don Juan (DJ) Bible to understand the framework in which we operate.

Be warned: if you are here to engage in debate, be prepared to face some of the best.


There are some of you that we have been waiting for. Woggle and AussieJack come to mind. You are among Men here, my friends...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i was honestly hoping the day would come some day that i would expose those frustrated "men" for what they are, thank god its finally happened!!!

i love trolling their site though, they all "hate" me too though, but they are probably using their "techniques" to pick me up awwwwwww so cute
http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=1592525#post1592525
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think iqqi was c0ckblocking. She doesn't want the online attention going to other online chicks.
 

Desdinova

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Well fvck iqqi. As long as we bring logic and quality to LS, others will listen! The women have tried to call us woman haters and that didn't stop us. Continue moving forward, men! :cheer:
 

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All I have to say is that I am so glad I joined this site. Not only is it helping with my life, but sometimes you get threads like this that are hilarious. (well at least to me) Keep up the good work guys, and nice detective work there penkitten :up:
 

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Sojourn said:
All I have to say is that I am so glad I joined this site. Not only is it helping with my life, but sometimes you get threads like this that are hilarious. (well at least to me) Keep up the good work guys, and nice detective work there penkitten :up:
welcome to the site!
but i didnt detect anything, i just copied and pasted where someone else linked us to so that if it got deleted there, it would still be here.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I've never seen anything like this before, lol. I'm clicking some random threads. We're under attack!

Of course if there were a bunch of chicks coming here, they would get shouted down.

I believe the most effective posts in the end will be the ones talking about positive masculinity, hopefully some of the guys there will be intrigued to come over here, and focus on that.

You're never going to get these girls to agree with you.
 

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You guys are idiots if you think Iqqi's choosing sides.


What she did is hilarious! It made me smile.


Oh to all the guys who came from loveshack, what were your handles there?

Welcome aboard!
 

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ThunderMaverick said:
You guys are idiots if you think Iqqi's choosing sides.


What she did is hilarious! It made me smile.
pass the popcorn before you explain this one...
 

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Now my posts need mod approval. Because I made a joke, that had JOKE!!!!!!!!!!! written directly after.
 

panosha

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So why are we posting at LS when they don't want it.....?

Leave them alone...more women for me and more for you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Nighthawk said:
Now my posts need mod approval. Because I made a joke, that had JOKE!!!!!!!!!!! written directly after.
I'm probably banned for what I said.

Edit: I was it was considered an "Ultimate heinous hate post"
 

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We should look at the bright side here..perhaps, instead of us going over there to help people, Iqqi's drama stunt may just bring more guys over here. It's easier posting on one site (for me at least).

Let's not forget that a lot of men, and women, have been helped with the advise given from sosuave. So, I think we did a good job. Hopefully some posters from Loveshack do come over here because of this.
 

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Welcome we are here to help
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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