“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Crux

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Originally posted by SuPaF1y
ok. um..

yea. im going to have to disagree with you there. Based on my field tests with HB9's and higher. i have ACTUALLY learned that moving faster makes you a bigger CATCH then slower targets in the womens eye. But you have your own opinions and even though yours is wrong i still respect you for it. eventually you will learn your wrong.. thanks for sharing your imput.
Dude you can't field test that?

WTF...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by Crux
Dude you can't field test that?

WTF...
actually there has been research done that shows that people that move faster are perceived as more aggressive, more engaged, somewhat more alpha and valuable, i guess.

Its all weird, i know. On one hand, you need to be chill and relaxed to be perceived as alpha, on the other hand, I guess that when you are in action, you better really be IN ACTION.

in a way it's understandable. The best hunters (among animals and humans) are the ones that conserve energy and don't needlessly waste it, yet are lightning fast in springing to action when they see an opportunity.
 

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Originally posted by SuPaF1y
haha actually i was just f*cking with you all :) i made all this stuff up!


YOU JUST GOT PUNK'D!!!!!!!!!

haha sure you did, nice try though.
Don't try to act fly on the net because I'm acting like the spider.
 

I_Only_Live_Once

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Walking faster is alpha.
 

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Well apart from my other post... here's to a better start in life:(

Context friends... CONTEXT!!!

When working, moving faster is a sign of alphaness since it shows an invigorated demure. Males who can perform menial tasks with accuracy prove they have moved beyond the task, it is considered NATURAL to them, it is a second hand movement, it is subconciously ingrained into their minds.

When in a relaxed setting, moving fast implies different personality traits. Have you ever talked to somebody in private, only to have them scurry off and sit alone. When was the last time you were excited while sitting down, and your voice started to speed up? Moving fast, excitedly, or seeming JUMPY, is a false indicator of fear.

Speed walking is great when you are ANGRY with somebody, it is HORRIBLE when you are anxious, or excited.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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At what point do these sort of discussion become "over-analyzing"? Isn't thinking about how fast you move, etc...sort of overdoing it?
 

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Originally posted by Slam_Jam
At what point do these sort of discussion become "over-analyzing"? Isn't thinking about how fast you move, etc...sort of overdoing it?
Hm, over doing it... how so? Isn't this site about finding all the little intricacies of seduction?

If it was not, than the DJ bible covers everything you need to know about the basics 50 fold.
 

I_Only_Live_Once

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well the dj bible is so broad though
 

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brad pitt's character in ocean's eleven, that cool doctor house from the show house, james dean, etc. how do they move ? ...slowly.

urkel from family matters, screech from saved by the bell, mcfly from back to the future, etc.... how do they move ? fast like a cheetah
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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