"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
The Keys to attraction Part One.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Egoist
Master Don Juan
actually there has been research done that shows that people that move faster are perceived as more aggressive, more engaged, somewhat more alpha and valuable, i guess.
Its all weird, i know. On one hand, you need to be chill and relaxed to be perceived as alpha, on the other hand, I guess that when you are in action, you better really be IN ACTION.
in a way it's understandable. The best hunters (among animals and humans) are the ones that conserve energy and don't needlessly waste it, yet are lightning fast in springing to action when they see an opportunity.
Originally posted by SuPaF1y
haha actually i was just f*cking with you alli made all this stuff up!
YOU JUST GOT PUNK'D!!!!!!!!!
haha sure you did, nice try though.
Don't try to act fly on the net because I'm acting like the spider.
I_Only_Live_Once
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ethnomethodologist
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Context friends... CONTEXT!!!
When working, moving faster is a sign of alphaness since it shows an invigorated demure. Males who can perform menial tasks with accuracy prove they have moved beyond the task, it is considered NATURAL to them, it is a second hand movement, it is subconciously ingrained into their minds.
When in a relaxed setting, moving fast implies different personality traits. Have you ever talked to somebody in private, only to have them scurry off and sit alone. When was the last time you were excited while sitting down, and your voice started to speed up? Moving fast, excitedly, or seeming JUMPY, is a false indicator of fear.
Speed walking is great when you are ANGRY with somebody, it is HORRIBLE when you are anxious, or excited.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
Hm, over doing it... how so? Isn't this site about finding all the little intricacies of seduction?
If it was not, than the DJ bible covers everything you need to know about the basics 50 fold.
I_Only_Live_Once
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organizedconfusion
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urkel from family matters, screech from saved by the bell, mcfly from back to the future, etc.... how do they move ? fast like a cheetah
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.