"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Keys to attraction Part One.

Crux

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Originally posted by SuPaF1y
ok. um..

yea. im going to have to disagree with you there. Based on my field tests with HB9's and higher. i have ACTUALLY learned that moving faster makes you a bigger CATCH then slower targets in the womens eye. But you have your own opinions and even though yours is wrong i still respect you for it. eventually you will learn your wrong.. thanks for sharing your imput.
Dude you can't field test that?

WTF...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Crux
Dude you can't field test that?

WTF...
actually there has been research done that shows that people that move faster are perceived as more aggressive, more engaged, somewhat more alpha and valuable, i guess.

Its all weird, i know. On one hand, you need to be chill and relaxed to be perceived as alpha, on the other hand, I guess that when you are in action, you better really be IN ACTION.

in a way it's understandable. The best hunters (among animals and humans) are the ones that conserve energy and don't needlessly waste it, yet are lightning fast in springing to action when they see an opportunity.
 

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Originally posted by SuPaF1y
haha actually i was just f*cking with you all :) i made all this stuff up!


YOU JUST GOT PUNK'D!!!!!!!!!

haha sure you did, nice try though.
Don't try to act fly on the net because I'm acting like the spider.
 

I_Only_Live_Once

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Walking faster is alpha.
 

ethnomethodologist

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Well apart from my other post... here's to a better start in life:(

Context friends... CONTEXT!!!

When working, moving faster is a sign of alphaness since it shows an invigorated demure. Males who can perform menial tasks with accuracy prove they have moved beyond the task, it is considered NATURAL to them, it is a second hand movement, it is subconciously ingrained into their minds.

When in a relaxed setting, moving fast implies different personality traits. Have you ever talked to somebody in private, only to have them scurry off and sit alone. When was the last time you were excited while sitting down, and your voice started to speed up? Moving fast, excitedly, or seeming JUMPY, is a false indicator of fear.

Speed walking is great when you are ANGRY with somebody, it is HORRIBLE when you are anxious, or excited.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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At what point do these sort of discussion become "over-analyzing"? Isn't thinking about how fast you move, etc...sort of overdoing it?
 

ethnomethodologist

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Originally posted by Slam_Jam
At what point do these sort of discussion become "over-analyzing"? Isn't thinking about how fast you move, etc...sort of overdoing it?
Hm, over doing it... how so? Isn't this site about finding all the little intricacies of seduction?

If it was not, than the DJ bible covers everything you need to know about the basics 50 fold.
 

I_Only_Live_Once

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well the dj bible is so broad though
 

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brad pitt's character in ocean's eleven, that cool doctor house from the show house, james dean, etc. how do they move ? ...slowly.

urkel from family matters, screech from saved by the bell, mcfly from back to the future, etc.... how do they move ? fast like a cheetah
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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