"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The inevitable decline of womens' looks as they age.

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See avatar. People routinely mistake me for 30. I routinely have late 20s and early 30s men hit on me. (And they are shocked when they find I'm a generation older.). This happens at the gym, when Im out, all the time. I wear no makeup typically during the day, often go days without wearing it at all.

Recently I was at a bank to get a cashier's check for a closing. The teller (a young woman) took my ID to verify me. I was wearing no make up as is typical. The teller's jaw dropped. I looked at her funny. She exclaimed "No way!" I was puzzled. She said "You look my age. No way you were born in the 60s!". I asked how old she was...she said 32. She said I looked 30...32 at most. It was flattering of course but this happens frequently. My avatar is from this past year. I'm 50 next year. The photo is not filtered or doctored at all.

People who age well do exist. It's lucky genetics (thanks mom & dad) combined with a healthy lifestyle & habits.

Having said all that I do know I'm an outlier. An exception to the rule. Exceptions/outliers do exist.
Prove it. Post a photo today. High res face photo, no makeup, in strong lighting. Write today's date and the words "sosusave beexcellent" on it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I didnt say that. There are a few exceptions such as actress Stacy Dash who looks great. But 20 is 20 and 30 is 30.
Here she is in 2013 (age 46). A moderate amount of makeup. She looks late 30's (generously) or early 40's (conservatively). Does she look 20, or even 30? Absolutely not.
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Here she is with light makeup. 2014? Looks mid 40's.
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Stacey Dash, 2017 (50). Looks 46.
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Prove it. Post a photo today. High res face photo, no makeup, in strong lighting. Write today's date and the words "sosusave beexcellent" on it.
See avatar as I noted before. Big Neil at one point took my previous avatar (a black & white still) and rated it on photo feeler (like he did with his 22 year old girls). He stated that the photo came back at 98% attractive. That's a 9+ HB rating. He said it was the 12th highest rated photo he ever had evaluated....and I think that's holding my own...especially given that all the other images he had rated were girls in their 20s.

Not bad for 49, lol. Not necessary to prove anything to you (an anonymous person) from the Internet.

My reality is as stated. Period. Whether you believe me or not has zero effect on my reality. In fact I post an actual photo of myself as an avatar to demonstrate congruence between what I say & how I look currently. You don't have an image of yourself in your avatar sir. Only a few guys here do. It is obvious from my avatar that I remain very in shape and good looking.

So prove it yourself, lol. Show your photo hot shot.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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See avatar as I noted before. Big Neil at one point took my previous avatar (a black & white still) and rated it on photo feeler (like he did with his 22 year old girls). He stated that the photo came back at 98% attractive. That's a 9+ HB rating. He said it was the 12th highest rated photo he ever had evaluated....and I think that's holding my own...especially given that all the other images he had rated were girls in their 20s.

Not bad for 49, lol. Not necessary to prove anything to you (an anonymous person) from the Internet.

My reality is as stated. Period. Whether you believe me or not has zero effect on my reality. In fact I post an actual photo of myself as an avatar to demonstrate congruence between what I say & how I look currently. You don't have an image of yourself in your avatar sir. Only a few guys here do. It is obvious from my avatar that I remain very in shape and good looking.

So prove it yourself, lol. Show your photo hot shot.
Your avatar is 192x192 pixels (36,864 pixels). High res is 1920 x 1080 (2,073,600 pixels). You're more than 2 million pixels short of a high res photo. You posted an extremely low res photo which is undated.

Post a face photo today, high res (iphone selfie will do), no makeup, in good lighting. I guarantee you look 40+. I also guarantee you will never post a current photo because you obviously do not look 30.
 
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Here she is in 2013 (age 46). A moderate amount of makeup. She looks late 30's (generously) or early 40's (conservatively). Does she look 20, or even 30? Absolutely not.
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Here she is with light makeup. 2014? Looks mid 40's.
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Stacey Dash, 2017 (50). Looks 46.
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Some bad pics. Im sure in person she looks great. There are a few in the age who look great. You cant have the "youth" look because part of that is ignorance to the world. As we get older we know more suffered more and it shows in our face.
 

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Some bad pics. Im sure in person she looks great. There are a few in the age who look great. You cant have the "youth" look because part of that is ignorance to the world. As we get older we know more suffered more and it shows in our face.
They're only "bad pics" in your mind because they don't support your delusion that a 45 or 50 year old woman can looks 20 or 30. She looks a few years younger than her age, not several decades younger.
 

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They're only "bad pics" in your mind because they don't support your delusion that a 45 or 50 year old woman can looks 20 or 30. She looks a few years younger than her age, not several decades younger.
I wouldnt say she could look 20. That ignorant "youth" look once its gone its gone. A well put together 50 can easily look better than a fit 35 though. Thats no delusion.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Stacey Dash can't.
Im not sure. I could pull thousands of examples of 35 year olds that look worse.

We also have Halle Berry, Nia Long and Gabrielle Union. Maria Carey.

When someone tells a 45 year or 50 that they look ten years younger. It means relative to the norm of their age group they appear noticeably younger.
 

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Im not sure. I could pull thousands of examples of 35 year olds that look worse.

We also have Halle Berry, Nita Long and Gabrirlle Union.

When someone tells a 45 year or 59 that they look ten years younger. It means relative to the norm of their age group they appear noticeably younger.
No, it doesn't. I've overheard many women who are clearly in their 40's and 50's tell one another they don't look a day over 25. I've even had middle aged women in the same age range that they get carded since they look 21. They actually expect me to believe this because their girlfriends have been repeating this same to lie to them for decades.

This is what's going on with beexcellent. She looks 5 years younger than her age (much like stacey dash) but everyone's been lying to her that she looks 30 or younger and she can't give up that delusion or her ego and sense of reality will collapse. That's why she has that outdated, low res photo posted and won't post anything current.
 

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No, it doesn't. I've overheard many women who are clearly in their 40's and 50's tell one another they don't look a day over 25. I've even had middle aged women in the same age range that they get carded since they look 21. They actually expect me to believe this because their girlfriends have been repeating this same to lie to them for decades.

This is what's going on with beexcellent. She looks 5 years younger than her age (much like stacey dash) but everyone's been lying to her that she looks 30 or younger and she can't give up that delusion or her ego and sense of reality will collapse. That's why she has that outdated, low res photo posted and won't post anything current.
Well you know women will do that to keep their ego up. Us men do it too reliving glory years of college or hs sports.
 

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Well you know women will do that to keep their ego up. Us men do it too reliving glory years of college or hs sports.
Beexcellent is basically the female version of Al Bundy. Instead of reliving his glory years as jv quarterback, Beexcellent is reliving her glory years as a 30 year old "beauty" as a 50 year old.

I overheard a guy at dmv saying he hadn't updated his driver's license photo in 20 years! What in the ****?
 

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Beexcellent is basically the female version of Al Bundy. Instead of reliving his glory years as jv quarterback, Beexcellent is reliving her glory years as a 30 year old "beauty" as a 50 year old.

I overheard a guy at dmv saying he hadn't updated his driver's license photo in 20 years! What in the ****?
In the male prison showers. All eyes on the lady.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When someone tells a 45 year or 50 that they look ten years younger. It means relative to the norm of their age group they appear noticeably younger.
Listen. I don't care what age people think I look. I still look very good by any objective measure. I weighed 117 lbs. this morning. I keep fit and still have great muscle structure, long healthy (never colored it) blonde hair and I'm still very pretty.

Beauty is always subjective. In other words it's all opinion. And it's all relative. I've been the most gorgeous girl in the room at times...other times I'm not. No big deal. That's all a matter of opinion and I don't concern myself with opinion. Am I to every man's taste over and above all others at all times? Of course not. Let's not be ridiculous.

Fact is I do have a better figure than MANY women half my age. I'm 5'6", 117lbs, trim athletic build. After 3 children (I do not look like I was ever pregnant and I still rock a bikini). No fake boobs or other surgical changes. I still do track workouts, and still play full field soccer. I lift.

Do I look the same as I did at 23 when I was doing some print modeling? Compared to myself? No. My face has less fat now which happens to everyone. So I do not look the same as I did at 20...but because I was that much better looking in my youth than many people and because of great genetics & lifestyle I am aging gracefully. So I still retain enough beauty to be seen as "hot", "sexy", "attractive"...etc., combined with the wisdom & perspective conferred by my life experience. Strangers have no reason to say I look as young as they say. It's no skin off their nose. Ditto bouncers (one of whom last week reacted to my ID much like the bank teller.) I've always been prettier in person than in photos and I take good photos. I don't care really. I simply am grateful for the blessing of beauty and I take great care of myself. I'm self assured & grounded & cool. I'm dating a slightly younger man for over a year who is investing more & more in the relationship...and he's a "Chad" type by standards around here.

So I'm objectively doing just fine as evidenced by my results.

I also am somewhat high profile so I am judicious about my image on the Internet. My avatar has always been a recent photo of me. It's there for congruence. That's all. I don't owe anybody here a thing. Read my content if you don't believe me. I've been a sought after woman for decades. That's a perspective that none of the men here have.

My content reflects that perspective.
 

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lol an other "short fat bald guys dont have sex cause they lack game" guys...

Forgive my heresy bro and now lets repeat all togheter looks dont matter its all about game.
Again, rhetoric on men trying to be pretty.

Check your testosterone son. Not doing it right.
 

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See avatar. People routinely mistake me for 30. I routinely have late 20s and early 30s men hit on me. (And they are shocked when they find I'm a generation older.). This happens at the gym, when Im out, all the time. I wear no makeup typically during the day, often go days without wearing it at all.

Recently I was at a bank to get a cashier's check for a closing. The teller (a young woman) took my ID to verify me. I was wearing no make up as is typical. The teller's jaw dropped. I looked at her funny. She exclaimed "No way!" I was puzzled. She said "You look my age. No way you were born in the 60s!". I asked how old she was...she said 32. She said I looked 30...32 at most. It was flattering of course but this happens frequently. My avatar is from this past year. I'm 50 next year. The photo is not filtered or doctored at all.

People who age well do exist. It's lucky genetics (thanks mom & dad) combined with a healthy lifestyle & habits.

Having said all that I do know I'm an outlier. An exception to the rule. Exceptions/outliers do exist.
Women mistake men wanting to nut for being special.

Women are led astray by feminism, girl power, and stupidity like sex and the city. Because men love marrying *****s and cratered SMV when new girls are turning 18 everyday.




As a deezed Brah, I can say firsthand the gym is a meat market. Tons of barely legal skanks caked up and semi naked begging for a ****kkk.

Eye contact, 3sec rule followed by taking my **** out same night.


Lmfao @ empowerment. Hilarious.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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