"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
squirrels
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WHAT THE FVCK ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT??
What gives you any indication that the girl at the top of this page is gothic or hates life??
For one thing, the resolution of that pic is like 200x200 pixels. For another thing, I don't see anything gothic or depressing about that girl at ALL.
For another thing, I can't BELIEVE that people are STILL wasting time off their lives analyzing the appearance of some chick-graphic at the top page of a forum!
You guys will never find a girl you're happy with...you're such frikkin media slaves it's not even funny. You've got this idea in your heads that you need to go out and be nailing some supermodel to be happy with your life.
And instead of going out looking for that supermodel, you're trying to change the pic at the top of some website to be that ideal girl?? Is she like, the only girl you see on a day-to-day basis or what??
I'm done. LOL...this is retarded.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Just curious,
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Spike_the_Dragon
Senior Don Juan
Better yet, we could replace her with a photo of my ass and that could be our mascot from now on.
Grow up, fellas. I'm sure there are better ways to waste the space on this site than by starting threads about a woman who probably isn't even real. Even so, I'd still **** her.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
cause im not only a chick , im also a member hahahahahaha
penkitten
Master Don Juan
yay!Originally posted by S0LID
if your hot, fair nuff
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
cant think of a user name
Master Don Juan
Now its just some transparent rectangle at the top
. Unfornately, smillies become transparent rectangles too.If it was up to me I wouldn't put a chick's pic up there - it attracts too much attention from people who walk past (can get a bit annoying).