"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The grl who represents our site.
- Thread starter S0LID
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
squirrels
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 15, 2003
- Messages
- 6,620
- Reaction score
- 186
- Age
- 47
WHAT THE FVCK ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT??
What gives you any indication that the girl at the top of this page is gothic or hates life??
For one thing, the resolution of that pic is like 200x200 pixels. For another thing, I don't see anything gothic or depressing about that girl at ALL.
For another thing, I can't BELIEVE that people are STILL wasting time off their lives analyzing the appearance of some chick-graphic at the top page of a forum!
You guys will never find a girl you're happy with...you're such frikkin media slaves it's not even funny. You've got this idea in your heads that you need to go out and be nailing some supermodel to be happy with your life.
And instead of going out looking for that supermodel, you're trying to change the pic at the top of some website to be that ideal girl?? Is she like, the only girl you see on a day-to-day basis or what??
I'm done. LOL...this is retarded.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Just curious,
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Spike_the_Dragon
Senior Don Juan
Better yet, we could replace her with a photo of my ass and that could be our mascot from now on.
Grow up, fellas. I'm sure there are better ways to waste the space on this site than by starting threads about a woman who probably isn't even real. Even so, I'd still **** her.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
cause im not only a chick , im also a member hahahahahaha
penkitten
Master Don Juan
yay!Originally posted by S0LID
if your hot, fair nuff
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
cant think of a user name
Master Don Juan
Now its just some transparent rectangle at the top
. Unfornately, smillies become transparent rectangles too.If it was up to me I wouldn't put a chick's pic up there - it attracts too much attention from people who walk past (can get a bit annoying).