"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The grl who represents our site.

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Originally posted by m4a1
Is that based on self-experience? because you've said that plenty of times before, it's scary, lol.

The girl on the front page should reflect the kind of girls we're after. It should attract guys to this site. What's a guy gonna think when he read some "dating advice" and then see an HB4 on the top of the page?... LOSERS....!
Creased! You got it spot on. I'm giving Trish Stratuas as an example. Someone with some life in her, not some goth who probably cuts her own wrists, and hates life.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by S0LID
Creased! You got it spot on. I'm giving Trish Stratuas as an example. Someone with some life in her, not some goth who probably cuts her own wrists, and hates life.
WHAT THE FVCK ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT??

What gives you any indication that the girl at the top of this page is gothic or hates life??

For one thing, the resolution of that pic is like 200x200 pixels. For another thing, I don't see anything gothic or depressing about that girl at ALL.

For another thing, I can't BELIEVE that people are STILL wasting time off their lives analyzing the appearance of some chick-graphic at the top page of a forum!

You guys will never find a girl you're happy with...you're such frikkin media slaves it's not even funny. You've got this idea in your heads that you need to go out and be nailing some supermodel to be happy with your life. :rolleyes:

And instead of going out looking for that supermodel, you're trying to change the pic at the top of some website to be that ideal girl?? Is she like, the only girl you see on a day-to-day basis or what??

I'm done. LOL...this is retarded.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Guys, given the purpose of this site, should a woman represent it? Isn't that a bit AFC? Not saying a man should either, but isn't the idea of having some pinup girl eye candy as a representative even more so puts a stereotypical label on DJs?

Just curious,
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Guys, given the purpose of this site, should a woman represent it? Isn't that a bit AFC? Not saying a man should either, but isn't the idea of having some pinup girl eye candy as a representative even more so puts a stereotypical label on DJs?

Just curious,
Damn right.
 

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Haha, even some player dude at the top of the screen would be better than that mutt.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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She looks kinda lonely standing up there all by herself... I say we give her a few girlfriends to keep her company. :D


Better yet, we could replace her with a photo of my ass and that could be our mascot from now on.:p

Grow up, fellas. I'm sure there are better ways to waste the space on this site than by starting threads about a woman who probably isn't even real. Even so, I'd still **** her.:rolleyes:
 

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"Suggestions and Feedback" forum. You guys don't take critisism well concidering.
 

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use my pic intstead...
cause im not only a chick , im also a member hahahahahaha
 

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if your hot, fair nuff :D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I had to turn off "show pictures" in internet explorer, just for this site, cos people walking past see the chick at the top of the screen and ask: "what are you looking at?" (as if i'm perving. pffft).

Now its just some transparent rectangle at the top :). Unfornately, smillies become transparent rectangles too.

If it was up to me I wouldn't put a chick's pic up there - it attracts too much attention from people who walk past (can get a bit annoying).
 

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She's got a nice early 1990's flare to her.

She'd be the uberhot of 1992.
Guess we're just used to seeing more today.

--iMat
 
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