"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Nice find Richard.
 
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You also need to realize that you must show her that you can walk away from her at any time. Her one real power is the belief that what she has is sooooo special that you can not live without it. Disabuse her of that delusion, quickly.
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We have seen this written over and over again, but I think this point really needs to be emphasised.

Good find btw, I'm reading it now. :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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by far the best information I found on this site was his 1-10 grading scale.

It really puts in presepctive the women you are chasing, she may have a 8 or 9 in the face, but may be a 5 overall.
 
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Originally posted by Dirtheart
We have seen this written over and over again, but I think this point really needs to be emphasised.

Good find btw, I'm reading it now. :)
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It's powerful to be able to do that. This girl I was unofficially out with last night (chance meeting) at the end of the night, we were going to hit another pub - but she insisted I wait for her while she went out back to smoke a joint. Yeah, right. She went out back to blow her lungs out and I just left. She was probably pretty pissed coming back in to find me gone, and I'll hear about it next time I see her, as I've been bumping into her alot, but really, who cares, right? She'll probably kino me alot for next time because of it, and I don't think I could've been kinoed any more than I already was.
 
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Originally posted by MetalFortress
http://home.earthlink.net/~jamiranda/GWP3.html

^Gimme a break, I can't take seriously a page that lists this and that form of slut as "good girl". And no, I don't want a woman to do the initiating.
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I think he ment "good girls" within the context that they are the ones less likely to screw you over in the long run if/when you develope a relationship with that type. Not all girls in those categories are sluts; I wouldn't read more into it than what is already there, as they only exist in word form.
 
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Dropping myself a reminder to read this later...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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