"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Games Women Play and How to Combat Them...

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Nice find Richard.
 

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You also need to realize that you must show her that you can walk away from her at any time. Her one real power is the belief that what she has is sooooo special that you can not live without it. Disabuse her of that delusion, quickly.
We have seen this written over and over again, but I think this point really needs to be emphasised.

Good find btw, I'm reading it now. :)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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by far the best information I found on this site was his 1-10 grading scale.

It really puts in presepctive the women you are chasing, she may have a 8 or 9 in the face, but may be a 5 overall.
 

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Originally posted by Dirtheart
We have seen this written over and over again, but I think this point really needs to be emphasised.

Good find btw, I'm reading it now. :)
It's powerful to be able to do that. This girl I was unofficially out with last night (chance meeting) at the end of the night, we were going to hit another pub - but she insisted I wait for her while she went out back to smoke a joint. Yeah, right. She went out back to blow her lungs out and I just left. She was probably pretty pissed coming back in to find me gone, and I'll hear about it next time I see her, as I've been bumping into her alot, but really, who cares, right? She'll probably kino me alot for next time because of it, and I don't think I could've been kinoed any more than I already was.
 

rgeere

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
http://home.earthlink.net/~jamiranda/GWP3.html

^Gimme a break, I can't take seriously a page that lists this and that form of slut as "good girl". And no, I don't want a woman to do the initiating.
I think he ment "good girls" within the context that they are the ones less likely to screw you over in the long run if/when you develope a relationship with that type. Not all girls in those categories are sluts; I wouldn't read more into it than what is already there, as they only exist in word form.
 

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Dropping myself a reminder to read this later...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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