"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nice find Richard.
 
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You also need to realize that you must show her that you can walk away from her at any time. Her one real power is the belief that what she has is sooooo special that you can not live without it. Disabuse her of that delusion, quickly.
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We have seen this written over and over again, but I think this point really needs to be emphasised.

Good find btw, I'm reading it now. :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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by far the best information I found on this site was his 1-10 grading scale.

It really puts in presepctive the women you are chasing, she may have a 8 or 9 in the face, but may be a 5 overall.
 
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Originally posted by Dirtheart
We have seen this written over and over again, but I think this point really needs to be emphasised.

Good find btw, I'm reading it now. :)
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It's powerful to be able to do that. This girl I was unofficially out with last night (chance meeting) at the end of the night, we were going to hit another pub - but she insisted I wait for her while she went out back to smoke a joint. Yeah, right. She went out back to blow her lungs out and I just left. She was probably pretty pissed coming back in to find me gone, and I'll hear about it next time I see her, as I've been bumping into her alot, but really, who cares, right? She'll probably kino me alot for next time because of it, and I don't think I could've been kinoed any more than I already was.
 
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Originally posted by MetalFortress
http://home.earthlink.net/~jamiranda/GWP3.html

^Gimme a break, I can't take seriously a page that lists this and that form of slut as "good girl". And no, I don't want a woman to do the initiating.
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I think he ment "good girls" within the context that they are the ones less likely to screw you over in the long run if/when you develope a relationship with that type. Not all girls in those categories are sluts; I wouldn't read more into it than what is already there, as they only exist in word form.
 
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Dropping myself a reminder to read this later...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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