Mr.Positive
Master Don Juan
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You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I'll agree that religion is a factor in a lot of things, but I dunno if it's a factor in THIS discussion. Many of the "stupid people" who are breeding believe in a deity of some kind. Many of them do not as well. I don't think belief in God is particularly significant in this particular discussion.Scaramouche said:Dear Squirrels,
All accepted,but weren't they also Religious?and did they not also have the cohesive effects of sharing common Enemies?.....As to Evolution,yes Social Evolution is all around us,but looking at a deeper level there is certainly evidence of some "Supreme Architect".A creator whose influence roams the entire Universe.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
The culture seems to reward the less intelligent/prosperous people for breeding. A lot of single, unemployable women depend on the number of children they have for their welfare/child support.synergy1 said:Most of my less intelligent friends are breeding quicker than my intelligent friends
It's called socialism.squirrels said:I think I've seen that before.
In any society that emphasizes the "common good", there will always be people who will freeload on the good nature of others without giving anything themselves, and they have nothing better to do than breed.
The reason America created such noble men in its inception is that they were all farmers and woodsmen, people who had to work their arses off for their very survival, let alone to thrive economically/politically/socially.
Now we have a society that works "successful" people to the bone, taxes the crap out of them, and uses that money to support the "less-fortunate"...as if it was "fortune" that caused them to fail.
Lack of personal responsibility.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.