"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The future of human evolution

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think I've seen that before. :p

In any society that emphasizes the "common good", there will always be people who will freeload on the good nature of others without giving anything themselves, and they have nothing better to do than breed.

The reason America created such noble men in its inception is that they were all farmers and woodsmen, people who had to work their arses off for their very survival, let alone to thrive economically/politically/socially.

Now we have a society that works "successful" people to the bone, taxes the crap out of them, and uses that money to support the "less-fortunate"...as if it was "fortune" that caused them to fail.

Lack of personal responsibility.
 

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Dear Squirrels,
All accepted,but weren't they also Religious?and did they not also have the cohesive effects of sharing common Enemies?.....As to Evolution,yes Social Evolution is all around us,but looking at a deeper level there is certainly evidence of some "Supreme Architect".A creator whose influence roams the entire Universe.
 

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Scaramouche said:
Dear Squirrels,
All accepted,but weren't they also Religious?and did they not also have the cohesive effects of sharing common Enemies?.....As to Evolution,yes Social Evolution is all around us,but looking at a deeper level there is certainly evidence of some "Supreme Architect".A creator whose influence roams the entire Universe.
I'll agree that religion is a factor in a lot of things, but I dunno if it's a factor in THIS discussion. Many of the "stupid people" who are breeding believe in a deity of some kind. Many of them do not as well. I don't think belief in God is particularly significant in this particular discussion.
 

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Dear Squirrels,
Point taken,with people on the bottom of the genetic pile,breeding faster than the remainder.We are not talking of Evolution but rather devolution.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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From my own observations at 30, this is generally true. Most of my less intelligent friends are breeding quicker than my intelligent friends. However to be fair, the later are catching up and have the infrastructure to have more kids as evidenced by my one friend who just purchased a home and had their second. The really sad thing is that these kids are all growing up in single parent homes, so this is the norm rather than the exception.

The ones that always bothered me are the family's with a ton of siblings. These are religious families that don't believe in contraception, but do believe in welfare checks and food stamps. Whats worse is that these values are instilled into the children, and some wish to pass along the same legacy. Thinking about it from a mathematical standpoint, such family units over the generations will geometrically outpace a normal and intelligent family.
 

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Haha, as soon as I saw a youtube link in the OP, I just knew it was gonna be that scene from "Idiocracy".
 

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synergy1 said:
Most of my less intelligent friends are breeding quicker than my intelligent friends
The culture seems to reward the less intelligent/prosperous people for breeding. A lot of single, unemployable women depend on the number of children they have for their welfare/child support.

Meanwhile, if you're a smart guy, you have to realize all the risks there are in having children, what with the current divorce rate. For many people, the reward is enough to offset them. For others, not.
 

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squirrels said:
I think I've seen that before. :p

In any society that emphasizes the "common good", there will always be people who will freeload on the good nature of others without giving anything themselves, and they have nothing better to do than breed.

The reason America created such noble men in its inception is that they were all farmers and woodsmen, people who had to work their arses off for their very survival, let alone to thrive economically/politically/socially.

Now we have a society that works "successful" people to the bone, taxes the crap out of them, and uses that money to support the "less-fortunate"...as if it was "fortune" that caused them to fail.

Lack of personal responsibility.
It's called socialism.

Think how amazing it was to have so many intelligent men, get together at one point in time, with a common purpose and draft the Constitution of the United States!

http://www.ushistory.org/us/15.asp

Of course these days, I believe that with the move toward socialism in this country, a 14 trillion national debt with 10% unemployment and uncontrolled spending, we may just be witnessing the downfall of Rome.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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