Mr.Positive
Master Don Juan
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She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I'll agree that religion is a factor in a lot of things, but I dunno if it's a factor in THIS discussion. Many of the "stupid people" who are breeding believe in a deity of some kind. Many of them do not as well. I don't think belief in God is particularly significant in this particular discussion.Scaramouche said:Dear Squirrels,
All accepted,but weren't they also Religious?and did they not also have the cohesive effects of sharing common Enemies?.....As to Evolution,yes Social Evolution is all around us,but looking at a deeper level there is certainly evidence of some "Supreme Architect".A creator whose influence roams the entire Universe.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The culture seems to reward the less intelligent/prosperous people for breeding. A lot of single, unemployable women depend on the number of children they have for their welfare/child support.synergy1 said:Most of my less intelligent friends are breeding quicker than my intelligent friends
It's called socialism.squirrels said:I think I've seen that before.
In any society that emphasizes the "common good", there will always be people who will freeload on the good nature of others without giving anything themselves, and they have nothing better to do than breed.
The reason America created such noble men in its inception is that they were all farmers and woodsmen, people who had to work their arses off for their very survival, let alone to thrive economically/politically/socially.
Now we have a society that works "successful" people to the bone, taxes the crap out of them, and uses that money to support the "less-fortunate"...as if it was "fortune" that caused them to fail.
Lack of personal responsibility.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.