Mr.Positive
Master Don Juan
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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I'll agree that religion is a factor in a lot of things, but I dunno if it's a factor in THIS discussion. Many of the "stupid people" who are breeding believe in a deity of some kind. Many of them do not as well. I don't think belief in God is particularly significant in this particular discussion.Scaramouche said:Dear Squirrels,
All accepted,but weren't they also Religious?and did they not also have the cohesive effects of sharing common Enemies?.....As to Evolution,yes Social Evolution is all around us,but looking at a deeper level there is certainly evidence of some "Supreme Architect".A creator whose influence roams the entire Universe.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The culture seems to reward the less intelligent/prosperous people for breeding. A lot of single, unemployable women depend on the number of children they have for their welfare/child support.synergy1 said:Most of my less intelligent friends are breeding quicker than my intelligent friends
It's called socialism.squirrels said:I think I've seen that before.
In any society that emphasizes the "common good", there will always be people who will freeload on the good nature of others without giving anything themselves, and they have nothing better to do than breed.
The reason America created such noble men in its inception is that they were all farmers and woodsmen, people who had to work their arses off for their very survival, let alone to thrive economically/politically/socially.
Now we have a society that works "successful" people to the bone, taxes the crap out of them, and uses that money to support the "less-fortunate"...as if it was "fortune" that caused them to fail.
Lack of personal responsibility.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.