"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The frightening reality of online dating.

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I'd recently joined the free dating site plentyoffish following advice from here. After receiving no replies to my messages and hearing about how women are bombarded I decided to see for myself.

I set up a fake profile (HB7) to see how bad the bombardments actually were.

ID: nic1984g
Password: password1

Feel free to log in and check the account, the amount of messages received every 5 minutes is frightening! If you always wondered why girls never reply to you then this is why. They're completely overwhelmed.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NickSCFC2000

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Ha I've already spotted someone has been sending out messages from the account I made...

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That's "our" first date, not "are".

On and nothing. Because there won't be one.''

Come which one of you was it LMAO!
 

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About half a dozen people on this forum has done this "experiment" now. And everyone has gotten the same results. I'm starting to wonder why guys keep doing this? It reminds me of all the jokes you used to hear about "there are no women on the internet". I think its pretty much time to let this go, unless of course you like getting attention from other men. :kick:
 

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I've closed my account following this. Always knew women had an advantage online.

I can clearly see now why people complain about women never replying, they're completely overwhelmed regardless of what game you may be using.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Zarky

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Warrior74 said:
About half a dozen people on this forum has done this "experiment" now. And everyone has gotten the same results. I'm starting to wonder why guys keep doing this? It reminds me of all the jokes you used to hear about "there are no women on the internet". I think its pretty much time to let this go, unless of course you like getting attention from other men. :kick:
I think every man has to see it for himself.
 

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Zarky said:
I think every man has to see it for himself.
No. No they don't. It's called learning from the experience of others.
 

NickSCFC2000

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Warrior74 said:
No. No they don't. It's called learning from the experience of others.
It's difficult to learn from others without going and and practicing for yourself. No two people are the same.
 

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NickSCFC2000 said:
It's difficult to learn from others without going and and practicing for yourself. No two people are the same.
I guess you should stick your fingers in the wall sockets then. Because no two people are the same, and you might not get the blistering pain from shock coming from 220 volts running through your gut.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NickSCFC2000

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SandHawk said:
I guess you should stick your fingers in the wall sockets then. Because no two people are the same, and you might not get the blistering pain from shock coming from 220 volts running through your gut.
Couldn't you have thought of a better analogy there? My way of learning had no risks involved.
 

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NickSCFC2000 said:
I've closed my account following this. Always knew women had an advantage online.

I can clearly see now why people complain about women never replying, they're completely overwhelmed regardless of what game you may be using.
Yes, that's true. I've done a similar thing in the past to see what happens.

Truth be told, I honestly couldn't be bothered sending out messages to chicks on online dating.

I do have profiles up and in that I clearly list the kind of girl that I'm looking for. And if you do have standards and list them, you'd be surprised how often a girl will contact you (not often, but sometimes).

Generally not a HB8/9 AW but some HB6s or 7s. Plus some chaff you could never be attracted to.

So, having a profile set up is not that large a time investment. Simply consider it a supplement to other pick ups in "real life".
 
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