"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The frightening reality of online dating.

NickSCFC2000

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I'd recently joined the free dating site plentyoffish following advice from here. After receiving no replies to my messages and hearing about how women are bombarded I decided to see for myself.

I set up a fake profile (HB7) to see how bad the bombardments actually were.

ID: nic1984g
Password: password1

Feel free to log in and check the account, the amount of messages received every 5 minutes is frightening! If you always wondered why girls never reply to you then this is why. They're completely overwhelmed.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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NickSCFC2000

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Ha I've already spotted someone has been sending out messages from the account I made...

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That's "our" first date, not "are".

On and nothing. Because there won't be one.''

Come which one of you was it LMAO!
 

Warrior74

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About half a dozen people on this forum has done this "experiment" now. And everyone has gotten the same results. I'm starting to wonder why guys keep doing this? It reminds me of all the jokes you used to hear about "there are no women on the internet". I think its pretty much time to let this go, unless of course you like getting attention from other men. :kick:
 

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I've closed my account following this. Always knew women had an advantage online.

I can clearly see now why people complain about women never replying, they're completely overwhelmed regardless of what game you may be using.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Zarky

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Warrior74 said:
About half a dozen people on this forum has done this "experiment" now. And everyone has gotten the same results. I'm starting to wonder why guys keep doing this? It reminds me of all the jokes you used to hear about "there are no women on the internet". I think its pretty much time to let this go, unless of course you like getting attention from other men. :kick:
I think every man has to see it for himself.
 

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Zarky said:
I think every man has to see it for himself.
No. No they don't. It's called learning from the experience of others.
 

NickSCFC2000

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Warrior74 said:
No. No they don't. It's called learning from the experience of others.
It's difficult to learn from others without going and and practicing for yourself. No two people are the same.
 

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NickSCFC2000 said:
It's difficult to learn from others without going and and practicing for yourself. No two people are the same.
I guess you should stick your fingers in the wall sockets then. Because no two people are the same, and you might not get the blistering pain from shock coming from 220 volts running through your gut.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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NickSCFC2000

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SandHawk said:
I guess you should stick your fingers in the wall sockets then. Because no two people are the same, and you might not get the blistering pain from shock coming from 220 volts running through your gut.
Couldn't you have thought of a better analogy there? My way of learning had no risks involved.
 

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NickSCFC2000 said:
I've closed my account following this. Always knew women had an advantage online.

I can clearly see now why people complain about women never replying, they're completely overwhelmed regardless of what game you may be using.
Yes, that's true. I've done a similar thing in the past to see what happens.

Truth be told, I honestly couldn't be bothered sending out messages to chicks on online dating.

I do have profiles up and in that I clearly list the kind of girl that I'm looking for. And if you do have standards and list them, you'd be surprised how often a girl will contact you (not often, but sometimes).

Generally not a HB8/9 AW but some HB6s or 7s. Plus some chaff you could never be attracted to.

So, having a profile set up is not that large a time investment. Simply consider it a supplement to other pick ups in "real life".
 
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