"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The frightening reality of online dating.

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I'd recently joined the free dating site plentyoffish following advice from here. After receiving no replies to my messages and hearing about how women are bombarded I decided to see for myself.

I set up a fake profile (HB7) to see how bad the bombardments actually were.

ID: nic1984g
Password: password1

Feel free to log in and check the account, the amount of messages received every 5 minutes is frightening! If you always wondered why girls never reply to you then this is why. They're completely overwhelmed.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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NickSCFC2000

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Ha I've already spotted someone has been sending out messages from the account I made...

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That's "our" first date, not "are".

On and nothing. Because there won't be one.''

Come which one of you was it LMAO!
 

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About half a dozen people on this forum has done this "experiment" now. And everyone has gotten the same results. I'm starting to wonder why guys keep doing this? It reminds me of all the jokes you used to hear about "there are no women on the internet". I think its pretty much time to let this go, unless of course you like getting attention from other men. :kick:
 

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I've closed my account following this. Always knew women had an advantage online.

I can clearly see now why people complain about women never replying, they're completely overwhelmed regardless of what game you may be using.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Warrior74 said:
About half a dozen people on this forum has done this "experiment" now. And everyone has gotten the same results. I'm starting to wonder why guys keep doing this? It reminds me of all the jokes you used to hear about "there are no women on the internet". I think its pretty much time to let this go, unless of course you like getting attention from other men. :kick:
I think every man has to see it for himself.
 

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Zarky said:
I think every man has to see it for himself.
No. No they don't. It's called learning from the experience of others.
 

NickSCFC2000

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Warrior74 said:
No. No they don't. It's called learning from the experience of others.
It's difficult to learn from others without going and and practicing for yourself. No two people are the same.
 

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NickSCFC2000 said:
It's difficult to learn from others without going and and practicing for yourself. No two people are the same.
I guess you should stick your fingers in the wall sockets then. Because no two people are the same, and you might not get the blistering pain from shock coming from 220 volts running through your gut.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NickSCFC2000

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SandHawk said:
I guess you should stick your fingers in the wall sockets then. Because no two people are the same, and you might not get the blistering pain from shock coming from 220 volts running through your gut.
Couldn't you have thought of a better analogy there? My way of learning had no risks involved.
 

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NickSCFC2000 said:
I've closed my account following this. Always knew women had an advantage online.

I can clearly see now why people complain about women never replying, they're completely overwhelmed regardless of what game you may be using.
Yes, that's true. I've done a similar thing in the past to see what happens.

Truth be told, I honestly couldn't be bothered sending out messages to chicks on online dating.

I do have profiles up and in that I clearly list the kind of girl that I'm looking for. And if you do have standards and list them, you'd be surprised how often a girl will contact you (not often, but sometimes).

Generally not a HB8/9 AW but some HB6s or 7s. Plus some chaff you could never be attracted to.

So, having a profile set up is not that large a time investment. Simply consider it a supplement to other pick ups in "real life".
 
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