"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The frightening reality of online dating.

NickSCFC2000

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I'd recently joined the free dating site plentyoffish following advice from here. After receiving no replies to my messages and hearing about how women are bombarded I decided to see for myself.

I set up a fake profile (HB7) to see how bad the bombardments actually were.

ID: nic1984g
Password: password1

Feel free to log in and check the account, the amount of messages received every 5 minutes is frightening! If you always wondered why girls never reply to you then this is why. They're completely overwhelmed.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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NickSCFC2000

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Ha I've already spotted someone has been sending out messages from the account I made...

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That's "our" first date, not "are".

On and nothing. Because there won't be one.''

Come which one of you was it LMAO!
 

Warrior74

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About half a dozen people on this forum has done this "experiment" now. And everyone has gotten the same results. I'm starting to wonder why guys keep doing this? It reminds me of all the jokes you used to hear about "there are no women on the internet". I think its pretty much time to let this go, unless of course you like getting attention from other men. :kick:
 

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I've closed my account following this. Always knew women had an advantage online.

I can clearly see now why people complain about women never replying, they're completely overwhelmed regardless of what game you may be using.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Zarky

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Warrior74 said:
About half a dozen people on this forum has done this "experiment" now. And everyone has gotten the same results. I'm starting to wonder why guys keep doing this? It reminds me of all the jokes you used to hear about "there are no women on the internet". I think its pretty much time to let this go, unless of course you like getting attention from other men. :kick:
I think every man has to see it for himself.
 

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Zarky said:
I think every man has to see it for himself.
No. No they don't. It's called learning from the experience of others.
 

NickSCFC2000

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Warrior74 said:
No. No they don't. It's called learning from the experience of others.
It's difficult to learn from others without going and and practicing for yourself. No two people are the same.
 

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NickSCFC2000 said:
It's difficult to learn from others without going and and practicing for yourself. No two people are the same.
I guess you should stick your fingers in the wall sockets then. Because no two people are the same, and you might not get the blistering pain from shock coming from 220 volts running through your gut.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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NickSCFC2000

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SandHawk said:
I guess you should stick your fingers in the wall sockets then. Because no two people are the same, and you might not get the blistering pain from shock coming from 220 volts running through your gut.
Couldn't you have thought of a better analogy there? My way of learning had no risks involved.
 

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NickSCFC2000 said:
I've closed my account following this. Always knew women had an advantage online.

I can clearly see now why people complain about women never replying, they're completely overwhelmed regardless of what game you may be using.
Yes, that's true. I've done a similar thing in the past to see what happens.

Truth be told, I honestly couldn't be bothered sending out messages to chicks on online dating.

I do have profiles up and in that I clearly list the kind of girl that I'm looking for. And if you do have standards and list them, you'd be surprised how often a girl will contact you (not often, but sometimes).

Generally not a HB8/9 AW but some HB6s or 7s. Plus some chaff you could never be attracted to.

So, having a profile set up is not that large a time investment. Simply consider it a supplement to other pick ups in "real life".
 
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