"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Fade Away

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clifford

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So, I am seeing this girl, I am really crazy about. About a month and a half ago, I pulled the gangi. It worked like a charm, but now she is getting weird again. I can't put up with this **** anymore so I have decided to do a variation of the gangi - the fade away. I need some tips on this. It's less extreme than the gangi, but deep down it's the same thing. It's all about retracting and being way less responsive, without ever being confrontational. Any of you guys that have done this before I would appreciate some tips.

I intend to check in here and post to tell you guys how it goes, but also as a sanity check.

The Fade Away - Day 1.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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drZaius09

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Originally posted by BigDawg
pardon my ignorance, but what is the gangi?
It's that green weed! You smoke it and get all high and sh#t... I know I couldn't possibly live without it :up:

If the rest of y'all would open your eyes to the herb, you wouldn't be on here worrying about all these games and sh#t... because like me, you just wouldn't care!
 

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Originally posted by drZaius09
It's that green weed! You smoke it and get all high and sh#t...
Oh, duh! I don't think I placed the name with the spelling. Sure I've heard of it, but I just wasn't making the connection. Brain cramp, I guess.

I never touched the stuff, but I can assure you, I stopped caring about a lot of things a long time ago.

Jaded indifference--what a concept.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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toddC

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dude weed is the best thing ever invented...although i took a break because soccer season has started i lov esmokin and will continue to do so once soccer is onver and done with :)
 
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