"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Fade Away

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So, I am seeing this girl, I am really crazy about. About a month and a half ago, I pulled the gangi. It worked like a charm, but now she is getting weird again. I can't put up with this **** anymore so I have decided to do a variation of the gangi - the fade away. I need some tips on this. It's less extreme than the gangi, but deep down it's the same thing. It's all about retracting and being way less responsive, without ever being confrontational. Any of you guys that have done this before I would appreciate some tips.

I intend to check in here and post to tell you guys how it goes, but also as a sanity check.

The Fade Away - Day 1.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by BigDawg
pardon my ignorance, but what is the gangi?
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It's that green weed! You smoke it and get all high and sh#t... I know I couldn't possibly live without it :up:

If the rest of y'all would open your eyes to the herb, you wouldn't be on here worrying about all these games and sh#t... because like me, you just wouldn't care!
 
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Originally posted by drZaius09
It's that green weed! You smoke it and get all high and sh#t...
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Oh, duh! I don't think I placed the name with the spelling. Sure I've heard of it, but I just wasn't making the connection. Brain cramp, I guess.

I never touched the stuff, but I can assure you, I stopped caring about a lot of things a long time ago.

Jaded indifference--what a concept.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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dude weed is the best thing ever invented...although i took a break because soccer season has started i lov esmokin and will continue to do so once soccer is onver and done with :)
 
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