"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Fade Away

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So, I am seeing this girl, I am really crazy about. About a month and a half ago, I pulled the gangi. It worked like a charm, but now she is getting weird again. I can't put up with this **** anymore so I have decided to do a variation of the gangi - the fade away. I need some tips on this. It's less extreme than the gangi, but deep down it's the same thing. It's all about retracting and being way less responsive, without ever being confrontational. Any of you guys that have done this before I would appreciate some tips.

I intend to check in here and post to tell you guys how it goes, but also as a sanity check.

The Fade Away - Day 1.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by BigDawg
pardon my ignorance, but what is the gangi?
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It's that green weed! You smoke it and get all high and sh#t... I know I couldn't possibly live without it :up:

If the rest of y'all would open your eyes to the herb, you wouldn't be on here worrying about all these games and sh#t... because like me, you just wouldn't care!
 
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Originally posted by drZaius09
It's that green weed! You smoke it and get all high and sh#t...
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Oh, duh! I don't think I placed the name with the spelling. Sure I've heard of it, but I just wasn't making the connection. Brain cramp, I guess.

I never touched the stuff, but I can assure you, I stopped caring about a lot of things a long time ago.

Jaded indifference--what a concept.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dude weed is the best thing ever invented...although i took a break because soccer season has started i lov esmokin and will continue to do so once soccer is onver and done with :)
 
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