frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
So in conclusion. If Vin Diesel walked in to the room, you'd be lost faster than a set of keys.
stop being dellusional!
thats just not true
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
So in conclusion. If Vin Diesel walked in to the room, you'd be lost faster than a set of keys.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
haha.....don't worry friv, if vin ever tries to amog your girl, i got yo back man! it'll help me get my career off chuck zito style
My gf says she loves me and one of my friends (or at least I thought), is trying to dj her, I'll let you know if this elusive "faithful girlfriend" really exists, because if there is anyone who loves her bf more than anything it's definitely my gf.Originally posted by frivolousz21
trust me..if ur women is IN love with you.
she WILL not cheat.
dotn buy anyone here who says differ....if it happen to them.
she wasnt in love.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
My gf says she loves me and one of my friends (or at least I thought), is trying to dj her, I'll let you know if this elusive "faithful girlfriend" really exists, because if there is anyone who loves her bf more than anything it's definitely my gf.
She's 18 and i'm 16, turning 17 in 4 months.Originally posted by frivolousz21
well how old are you again? and her?
that matters.
She's 18 and i'm 16, turning 17 in 4 months.
hehe, you have no IDEA!Originally posted by frivolousz21
damn....
your gonna have to man up..quickly...because soon you will be a senior in hs..and she will be 20 and around alot of grown men.
if she is in love with you...she wont cheat...
are you sure she is in love with u?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I know and it's thanks to you, Wyldfire, comic_relief, and my reasoning. But thanks to you guys for helping me understand what most other DJs don't, and I'm sure you know what I'm talking about.Originally posted by frivolousz21
well thats good.....!
your probably well ahead of the curve for guys your age
no Prob :woo:I know and it's thanks to you, Wyldfire, comic_relief, and my reasoning. But thanks to you guys for helping me understand what most other DJs don't, and I'm sure you know what I'm talking about.
What do you mean by that? And how would I go about manning up?Originally posted by frivolousz21
damn....
your gonna have to man up..quickly...
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.