frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
stop being dellusional!
thats just not true
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The elusive "FAITHFUL GIRLFRIEND"
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stop being dellusional!
thats just not true
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
MindOverMatter
Master Don Juan
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don't worry friv, if vin ever tries to amog your girl, i got yo back man! it'll help me get my career off chuck zito style
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
haha.....don't worry friv, if vin ever tries to amog your girl, i got yo back man! it'll help me get my career off chuck zito style
thats tight!
Lemme put somthing straight here
We're not talking about a lifelong marriage here, and even if I was, most girls I meet nowadays say
"Well it's only abit of papper anyway"
e.g the relationship is nothing without the bond, which I believe aswell.
as for a gf, if your bond isn't strong then... sure, it happens.
What iv'e realised recently is that the reason men get more respect is that women are childish, even my mum whos 55 still acts like a college girl of 17 lol
The reason why they're so weak in relationships is because they are much more emotional, like if a relationship was going through a bad patch, the guy would see right past it, unemotionally. For a girlfriend it might ruin the whole magic and emtional bond and once both of those are gone... well, have you heard how most girls talk about men, it's like we are fvckin property or a toaster lol i.e somthing which can be replaced.
I don't believe in love, or more accuratly, I don't believe it will last forever, untill im 75, I will still be macking.
We're not talking about a lifelong marriage here, and even if I was, most girls I meet nowadays say
"Well it's only abit of papper anyway"
e.g the relationship is nothing without the bond, which I believe aswell.
as for a gf, if your bond isn't strong then... sure, it happens.
What iv'e realised recently is that the reason men get more respect is that women are childish, even my mum whos 55 still acts like a college girl of 17 lol
The reason why they're so weak in relationships is because they are much more emotional, like if a relationship was going through a bad patch, the guy would see right past it, unemotionally. For a girlfriend it might ruin the whole magic and emtional bond and once both of those are gone... well, have you heard how most girls talk about men, it's like we are fvckin property or a toaster lol i.e somthing which can be replaced.
I don't believe in love, or more accuratly, I don't believe it will last forever, untill im 75, I will still be macking.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
My gf says she loves me and one of my friends (or at least I thought), is trying to dj her, I'll let you know if this elusive "faithful girlfriend" really exists, because if there is anyone who loves her bf more than anything it's definitely my gf.Originally posted by frivolousz21
trust me..if ur women is IN love with you.
she WILL not cheat.
dotn buy anyone here who says differ....if it happen to them.
she wasnt in love.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
My gf says she loves me and one of my friends (or at least I thought), is trying to dj her, I'll let you know if this elusive "faithful girlfriend" really exists, because if there is anyone who loves her bf more than anything it's definitely my gf.
well how old are you again? and her?
that matters.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
She's 18 and i'm 16, turning 17 in 4 months.Originally posted by frivolousz21
well how old are you again? and her?
that matters.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
She's 18 and i'm 16, turning 17 in 4 months.
damn....
your gonna have to man up..quickly...because soon you will be a senior in hs..and she will be 20 and around alot of grown men.
if she is in love with you...she wont cheat...
are you sure she is in love with u?
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
hehe, you have no IDEA!Originally posted by frivolousz21
damn....
your gonna have to man up..quickly...because soon you will be a senior in hs..and she will be 20 and around alot of grown men.
if she is in love with you...she wont cheat...
are you sure she is in love with u?
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
well thats good.....!
your probably well ahead of the curve for guys your age
your probably well ahead of the curve for guys your age
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
I know and it's thanks to you, Wyldfire, comic_relief, and my reasoning. But thanks to you guys for helping me understand what most other DJs don't, and I'm sure you know what I'm talking about.Originally posted by frivolousz21
well thats good.....!
your probably well ahead of the curve for guys your age
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
no Prob :woo:I know and it's thanks to you, Wyldfire, comic_relief, and my reasoning. But thanks to you guys for helping me understand what most other DJs don't, and I'm sure you know what I'm talking about.
SeldomSeen
Senior Don Juan
RE:
My grandmother doesnt cheat....!!
My grandmother doesnt cheat....!!
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
What do you mean by that? And how would I go about manning up?Originally posted by frivolousz21
damn....
your gonna have to man up..quickly...
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
first off clean out your PM box.
show the signs of a man.
Maturity, integridy, honesty, repsect, work ethic......its goes on and on.
most guys your age..dont do much if any of that stuff.
women are attracted to strong men.
show the signs of a man.
Maturity, integridy, honesty, repsect, work ethic......its goes on and on.
most guys your age..dont do much if any of that stuff.
women are attracted to strong men.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.