Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The elusive "FAITHFUL GIRLFRIEND"

frivolousz21

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So in conclusion. If Vin Diesel walked in to the room, you'd be lost faster than a set of keys.

stop being dellusional!

thats just not true
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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don't worry friv, if vin ever tries to amog your girl, i got yo back man! it'll help me get my career off chuck zito style
 

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don't worry friv, if vin ever tries to amog your girl, i got yo back man! it'll help me get my career off chuck zito style
haha.....


thats tight!
 

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Lemme put somthing straight here

We're not talking about a lifelong marriage here, and even if I was, most girls I meet nowadays say
"Well it's only abit of papper anyway"
e.g the relationship is nothing without the bond, which I believe aswell.

as for a gf, if your bond isn't strong then... sure, it happens.
What iv'e realised recently is that the reason men get more respect is that women are childish, even my mum whos 55 still acts like a college girl of 17 lol
The reason why they're so weak in relationships is because they are much more emotional, like if a relationship was going through a bad patch, the guy would see right past it, unemotionally. For a girlfriend it might ruin the whole magic and emtional bond and once both of those are gone... well, have you heard how most girls talk about men, it's like we are fvckin property or a toaster lol i.e somthing which can be replaced.

I don't believe in love, or more accuratly, I don't believe it will last forever, untill im 75, I will still be macking.
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
trust me..if ur women is IN love with you.

she WILL not cheat.

dotn buy anyone here who says differ....if it happen to them.
she wasnt in love.
My gf says she loves me and one of my friends (or at least I thought), is trying to dj her, I'll let you know if this elusive "faithful girlfriend" really exists, because if there is anyone who loves her bf more than anything it's definitely my gf.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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My gf says she loves me and one of my friends (or at least I thought), is trying to dj her, I'll let you know if this elusive "faithful girlfriend" really exists, because if there is anyone who loves her bf more than anything it's definitely my gf.

well how old are you again? and her?

that matters.
 

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She's 18 and i'm 16, turning 17 in 4 months.

damn....

your gonna have to man up..quickly...because soon you will be a senior in hs..and she will be 20 and around alot of grown men.


if she is in love with you...she wont cheat...

are you sure she is in love with u?
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
damn....

your gonna have to man up..quickly...because soon you will be a senior in hs..and she will be 20 and around alot of grown men.


if she is in love with you...she wont cheat...

are you sure she is in love with u?
hehe, you have no IDEA!
 

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well thats good.....!

your probably well ahead of the curve for guys your age
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
well thats good.....!

your probably well ahead of the curve for guys your age
I know and it's thanks to you, Wyldfire, comic_relief, and my reasoning. But thanks to you guys for helping me understand what most other DJs don't, and I'm sure you know what I'm talking about.
 

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I know and it's thanks to you, Wyldfire, comic_relief, and my reasoning. But thanks to you guys for helping me understand what most other DJs don't, and I'm sure you know what I'm talking about.
no Prob :woo:
 

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first off clean out your PM box.

show the signs of a man.

Maturity, integridy, honesty, repsect, work ethic......its goes on and on.

most guys your age..dont do much if any of that stuff.



women are attracted to strong men.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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