frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
So in conclusion. If Vin Diesel walked in to the room, you'd be lost faster than a set of keys.
stop being dellusional!
thats just not true
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
So in conclusion. If Vin Diesel walked in to the room, you'd be lost faster than a set of keys.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
haha.....don't worry friv, if vin ever tries to amog your girl, i got yo back man! it'll help me get my career off chuck zito style
My gf says she loves me and one of my friends (or at least I thought), is trying to dj her, I'll let you know if this elusive "faithful girlfriend" really exists, because if there is anyone who loves her bf more than anything it's definitely my gf.Originally posted by frivolousz21
trust me..if ur women is IN love with you.
she WILL not cheat.
dotn buy anyone here who says differ....if it happen to them.
she wasnt in love.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
My gf says she loves me and one of my friends (or at least I thought), is trying to dj her, I'll let you know if this elusive "faithful girlfriend" really exists, because if there is anyone who loves her bf more than anything it's definitely my gf.
She's 18 and i'm 16, turning 17 in 4 months.Originally posted by frivolousz21
well how old are you again? and her?
that matters.
She's 18 and i'm 16, turning 17 in 4 months.
hehe, you have no IDEA!Originally posted by frivolousz21
damn....
your gonna have to man up..quickly...because soon you will be a senior in hs..and she will be 20 and around alot of grown men.
if she is in love with you...she wont cheat...
are you sure she is in love with u?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I know and it's thanks to you, Wyldfire, comic_relief, and my reasoning. But thanks to you guys for helping me understand what most other DJs don't, and I'm sure you know what I'm talking about.Originally posted by frivolousz21
well thats good.....!
your probably well ahead of the curve for guys your age
no Prob :woo:I know and it's thanks to you, Wyldfire, comic_relief, and my reasoning. But thanks to you guys for helping me understand what most other DJs don't, and I'm sure you know what I'm talking about.
What do you mean by that? And how would I go about manning up?Originally posted by frivolousz21
damn....
your gonna have to man up..quickly...
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.