Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
haha you guys replied before i posted the pollbigjohnson said:Poll?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
but a good summaryJLR said:I've lost so much in the market the past 90 days that I might have to eat strictly Ramen noodles for a month... In all seriousness, I'm so glad I'm not like some people (idiots) I know who stupidly financed mortgages @ 120%, w/ interest-only payments for the first 5 years...those people are losing their homes as I type this. They're the same people who lease 5 series BMW's & live off credit cards for all but the most basic of things. Bernanke's path of bailing people out is giving people no reason to change their ways. (I know, a MAJOR over-simplification of the larger problem)
Booblepook said:I don't know about two years my man. But this month of February was absolutely crappy. I lost a business, and now making nothing..
My friend's company is taking a dive too, a lot of cuts, my friend is barely hanging on to his job..
It's hard to say about the next two years, but I can guess.. Our economy will continue to take a dive, past presedential election, it will still be diving.. Then it is up to the next president to make it better..
I hope democrats win.. It was so much better during Bill Clinton, we had like the best economy ever! I want Bill Clinton back in the oval office.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Well, we can't keep printing money or borrowing it from China. OR paying for the war for that matter. Being the world police officer isn't going to help us with our domestic issues.j-flex said:actually it was with ronald reagan.
you see, if companies get to pay higher taxes they wont invest in america, which wont produce more jobs.
if they make more welfare programs, that means you'll have to pay more taxes whether you like it or not which will make you to live worse.
a bigger government equals more power to them to run your lives.
dont believe that the government have the solution to our problems. thats demagogy.
come on people! i thought americans were smarter than that!.
read some Milton friedman, Hayek, Von misses, and see their ideas implemented in countries like: Ireland, Estonia, Chile, Hong Kong etc.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
totally agree.Cr1msonKing said:Tariffs are bad ideas, all they do is increase the price of our domestic goods to match the world price. They have a comparative advantage, and we should be realistically buying from them.
http://economics.about.com/cs/taxpolicy/a/tariffs_3.htm
Not to mention he was a complete badass.during Bill Clinton, we had like the best economy ever!
Are you saying that we shouldn't be taxed at all? I'd love for you to expand on this a bit.Government shouldnt tax low income and neither high income people.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.