Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
haha you guys replied before i posted the pollbigjohnson said:Poll?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
but a good summaryJLR said:I've lost so much in the market the past 90 days that I might have to eat strictly Ramen noodles for a month... In all seriousness, I'm so glad I'm not like some people (idiots) I know who stupidly financed mortgages @ 120%, w/ interest-only payments for the first 5 years...those people are losing their homes as I type this. They're the same people who lease 5 series BMW's & live off credit cards for all but the most basic of things. Bernanke's path of bailing people out is giving people no reason to change their ways. (I know, a MAJOR over-simplification of the larger problem)
Booblepook said:I don't know about two years my man. But this month of February was absolutely crappy. I lost a business, and now making nothing..
My friend's company is taking a dive too, a lot of cuts, my friend is barely hanging on to his job..
It's hard to say about the next two years, but I can guess.. Our economy will continue to take a dive, past presedential election, it will still be diving.. Then it is up to the next president to make it better..
I hope democrats win.. It was so much better during Bill Clinton, we had like the best economy ever! I want Bill Clinton back in the oval office.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Well, we can't keep printing money or borrowing it from China. OR paying for the war for that matter. Being the world police officer isn't going to help us with our domestic issues.j-flex said:actually it was with ronald reagan.
you see, if companies get to pay higher taxes they wont invest in america, which wont produce more jobs.
if they make more welfare programs, that means you'll have to pay more taxes whether you like it or not which will make you to live worse.
a bigger government equals more power to them to run your lives.
dont believe that the government have the solution to our problems. thats demagogy.
come on people! i thought americans were smarter than that!.
read some Milton friedman, Hayek, Von misses, and see their ideas implemented in countries like: Ireland, Estonia, Chile, Hong Kong etc.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
totally agree.Cr1msonKing said:Tariffs are bad ideas, all they do is increase the price of our domestic goods to match the world price. They have a comparative advantage, and we should be realistically buying from them.
http://economics.about.com/cs/taxpolicy/a/tariffs_3.htm
Not to mention he was a complete badass.during Bill Clinton, we had like the best economy ever!
Are you saying that we shouldn't be taxed at all? I'd love for you to expand on this a bit.Government shouldnt tax low income and neither high income people.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.