That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
haha you guys replied before i posted the pollbigjohnson said:Poll?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
but a good summaryJLR said:I've lost so much in the market the past 90 days that I might have to eat strictly Ramen noodles for a month... In all seriousness, I'm so glad I'm not like some people (idiots) I know who stupidly financed mortgages @ 120%, w/ interest-only payments for the first 5 years...those people are losing their homes as I type this. They're the same people who lease 5 series BMW's & live off credit cards for all but the most basic of things. Bernanke's path of bailing people out is giving people no reason to change their ways. (I know, a MAJOR over-simplification of the larger problem)
Booblepook said:I don't know about two years my man. But this month of February was absolutely crappy. I lost a business, and now making nothing..
My friend's company is taking a dive too, a lot of cuts, my friend is barely hanging on to his job..
It's hard to say about the next two years, but I can guess.. Our economy will continue to take a dive, past presedential election, it will still be diving.. Then it is up to the next president to make it better..
I hope democrats win.. It was so much better during Bill Clinton, we had like the best economy ever! I want Bill Clinton back in the oval office.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Well, we can't keep printing money or borrowing it from China. OR paying for the war for that matter. Being the world police officer isn't going to help us with our domestic issues.j-flex said:actually it was with ronald reagan.
you see, if companies get to pay higher taxes they wont invest in america, which wont produce more jobs.
if they make more welfare programs, that means you'll have to pay more taxes whether you like it or not which will make you to live worse.
a bigger government equals more power to them to run your lives.
dont believe that the government have the solution to our problems. thats demagogy.
come on people! i thought americans were smarter than that!.
read some Milton friedman, Hayek, Von misses, and see their ideas implemented in countries like: Ireland, Estonia, Chile, Hong Kong etc.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
totally agree.Cr1msonKing said:Tariffs are bad ideas, all they do is increase the price of our domestic goods to match the world price. They have a comparative advantage, and we should be realistically buying from them.
http://economics.about.com/cs/taxpolicy/a/tariffs_3.htm
Not to mention he was a complete badass.during Bill Clinton, we had like the best economy ever!
Are you saying that we shouldn't be taxed at all? I'd love for you to expand on this a bit.Government shouldnt tax low income and neither high income people.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.