I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
haha you guys replied before i posted the pollbigjohnson said:Poll?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
but a good summaryJLR said:I've lost so much in the market the past 90 days that I might have to eat strictly Ramen noodles for a month... In all seriousness, I'm so glad I'm not like some people (idiots) I know who stupidly financed mortgages @ 120%, w/ interest-only payments for the first 5 years...those people are losing their homes as I type this. They're the same people who lease 5 series BMW's & live off credit cards for all but the most basic of things. Bernanke's path of bailing people out is giving people no reason to change their ways. (I know, a MAJOR over-simplification of the larger problem)
Booblepook said:I don't know about two years my man. But this month of February was absolutely crappy. I lost a business, and now making nothing..
My friend's company is taking a dive too, a lot of cuts, my friend is barely hanging on to his job..
It's hard to say about the next two years, but I can guess.. Our economy will continue to take a dive, past presedential election, it will still be diving.. Then it is up to the next president to make it better..
I hope democrats win.. It was so much better during Bill Clinton, we had like the best economy ever! I want Bill Clinton back in the oval office.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Well, we can't keep printing money or borrowing it from China. OR paying for the war for that matter. Being the world police officer isn't going to help us with our domestic issues.j-flex said:actually it was with ronald reagan.
you see, if companies get to pay higher taxes they wont invest in america, which wont produce more jobs.
if they make more welfare programs, that means you'll have to pay more taxes whether you like it or not which will make you to live worse.
a bigger government equals more power to them to run your lives.
dont believe that the government have the solution to our problems. thats demagogy.
come on people! i thought americans were smarter than that!.
read some Milton friedman, Hayek, Von misses, and see their ideas implemented in countries like: Ireland, Estonia, Chile, Hong Kong etc.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
totally agree.Cr1msonKing said:Tariffs are bad ideas, all they do is increase the price of our domestic goods to match the world price. They have a comparative advantage, and we should be realistically buying from them.
http://economics.about.com/cs/taxpolicy/a/tariffs_3.htm
Not to mention he was a complete badass.during Bill Clinton, we had like the best economy ever!
Are you saying that we shouldn't be taxed at all? I'd love for you to expand on this a bit.Government shouldnt tax low income and neither high income people.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.