"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The easiest way to know what makes an alpha

SargeMaximus

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… Is to do what women complain the HVM in their life do/did. It’s a rough blueprint but it works.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Robert28

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And what to high value males do that women complain about?
Be a drunk, do some drugs, be a bum with no job or a sh!t job, have a couple felonies, a bunch of gawdy tattoos that look like they were done in a garage by your cousin Jimbo, don’t drive or have a license. You know, the opposite of normal stuff.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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lgbs2004

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I'm on this forum since 2006 if I'm not mistaken and this alpha and beta talk never reach an end.

For each member, the definitions of alpha and beta are full of generalizations.

Some think it's the tattooed, coke-snorting bad boy who beats up their girlfriends.

Others say it's the millionaire who runs a large organization and bosses over 1,000,000 employees, drives a Lamborghini and seduces his secretary.

We will never reach a verdict, and this talk will never end.
 

RazorRambo24

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If you need to know what makes an alpha, you're prob not an alpha.

Alpha males are just dudes who stand by their own code of ethics and morals, have things they stand for.. Who don't fold for other peoples standards. Who speak their mind, don't care too much if people like them or not, but are self aware to know how to manage in any environment, who are pretty rigid in their ways, who focus and give their attention to mostly whats important to them. Who aren't very empathetic when it comes to problems they can't relate to. Who excel when it comes to qualities such as leadership, persistence, mental and physical strength, determination, who are self confident/self assured and have self respect. I would even say you have to be socially adept/calibrated to be an alpha male and have charisma.

To simplify it, think of the person or people in your lif e who always Set their mind to goals and objectives that are often seem daunting and then attack the goal and get it done.. Who don't fold under pressure when others all take one stance opposing a stance of their own. and who have built for themselves tangible products of their willpower, whether a nice strong physique, an abundant lifestyle, a strong group of friends, a room full of trophies, etc and often call out things that go against what they believe or call out bull.sht or injustices.
 

Murk

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High value and Alpha aren't the same. HVM needs money, alpha doesn't. I think alpha is more a way of being, the way you carry yourself, your integrity, confidence, ability to lead, and your capabilities as a man. High value is more money, success, network, and physical prowess counts for less with HVM compared to alpha, the key is in the word "value". Alpha is more innate. Try to be both.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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BadBoy89

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If a man is dating and having sex with a hot blonde girl between:

18-22 - he is 100% Alpha
23-27 - 75% Alpha
28-33 - 50% Alpha
34-38 - 25% Alpha
38+ - 0% Aloha 100% Beta

Little more leeway if the girl has black hair, but not much.
 
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